Re: how to be alpha
Dillinger - this is instincts, a woman will be attracted to a man instinctly if he can support a family (money) just like we are attracted to women for there child bearing features.
Value - a reason to hold value, I have a job, I can support myself/others, live independently, I'm not scared to talk to women, I can cook, Value is based on firstly your self value, then by others as they get to know you. But there is a cheat. If you self value yourself, your body language and attitude will do all the talking. You don't have to sell yourself. You know your good enough. Then you qualify her to see if she's good enough for you
We all know qualifying her adds to your value in her eyes. Your self perception will dictate how you communicate/present/behave and that will control others reactions to you.
Why make a product and then sell it, when you can make a product that sells itself and picks its customers?
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.