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    hi there guys, i read in cameron crawfords black ops hypnosis that if you are an alpha you lead people to believe that you either have something they want, have something they want to be around, or have a lifestyle they want to be a part of and visa versa. I am wondering if there are other ways to become an alpha also. he says that in a social group the most social person is usually the alpha and in a work environment the alpha could be the one that comes up with the ideas that help the buisness the most. It says that every living being is designed to want to survive and multiply(have kids)

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    Default Re: how to be alpha

    Buddy. I remember you. Mr. A doesn't forget. You asked this question a year ago. Here is your thread. Reread it.

    What makes a dominant man?

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    Default Re: how to be alpha

    Sorry, I forgot. I should have posted in the other thread I started

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    Hi there guys, I was thinking about being alpha and thinking about what I read and also something else I read on the internet about social status and how there are two ways to get there, dominance and prestige. They said prestige was the more important one. Prestige comes from if people admire you for what you are able to do. In caveman times you would have been admired if you knew how to hunt well or knew how to find the berries that were not poisonous or how to build tools. I was thinking that if a person knows how to survive well then that could lead to being alpha. Maybe anything that would be considered cool by others or something like that. In my opinion anything that makes money but I don't know. Does this sound good?

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    I dont know about what I last posted but I am wondering about some great advice I got on here. I am wondering if what attracts women is value and value from what I have read here is when you can help someone with survival or replication and more survival with women and more replication with men. Maybe it is attractive if a man makes money because then a woman thinks "this guy could help me if i needed it" or if a guy is in great shape then a woman could think "great, if i need someone to protect me he could" and stuff like that. And for men with friends if a friend could help another friend get women to like him or make him look cooler to women then maybe that is something that creates friendship as well. What do you guys think about all this?

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    Dillinger - this is instincts, a woman will be attracted to a man instinctly if he can support a family (money) just like we are attracted to women for there child bearing features.

    Value - a reason to hold value, I have a job, I can support myself/others, live independently, I'm not scared to talk to women, I can cook, Value is based on firstly your self value, then by others as they get to know you. But there is a cheat. If you self value yourself, your body language and attitude will do all the talking. You don't have to sell yourself. You know your good enough. Then you qualify her to see if she's good enough for you

    We all know qualifying her adds to your value in her eyes. Your self perception will dictate how you communicate/present/behave and that will control others reactions to you.

    Why make a product and then sell it, when you can make a product that sells itself and picks its customers?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: how to be alpha

    Thanks Tyrone, sorry, I think I misread what someone told me value is. What they actually said was if you can add value to someones life. Like if you make someones job of doing something easier or if you are fun to be around and maybe if you make someone's life better somehow. I think that is what social value is maybe or value.

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    A TRUE alpha man make people feel wanted, appreciated, important & welcome.
    He expresses confidence & genuinely draws people to him.

    Alphas care about people, and advise them in the right direction.

    They don't care about "getting the glory", because it just comes naturally.
    So in situations like work, they don't feel the need to take credit for something if they gave someone else the idea or the info to make it happen.
    They let other people enjoy their own success & praise them for doing a kickass job.

    Alphas don't spend their time trying to make everyone else happy, but they do their part in helping people achieve happiness.

    Make sense?

    Alphas are leaders. And leaders understand that followers have to feel like they belong, in order for things to progress.

    Alphas speak their mind, but in a respectable manner.

    They don't play games or manipulate people for personal gain.

    They just do their thing... knowing that everyone else can benefit.

    THAT is a true Alpha male.


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    Hi there guys, now I was thinking about something different. I was thinking that there is a difference between men and women and men will pretty much mate with any acceptable woman who looks good because that is how males are, even in animals. I am thinking that women or females are the ones that actually choose which mates they want and men do not really choose, they(we) just mate with anyone that is good looking. That is kindof what I have been thinking about.

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    And I know that there is the David Deangelo saying that attraction is not a choice but I am pretty sure that does not mean that women blindly fuck men they are attracted to. I think what it comes down to maybe is that she is convinced that you are the best guy for her. Thats just a guess.


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