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    Default Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have none

    Doesn't it all come down to how people act in a social circle? Isn't this the most natural form?

    Problem is: I have no friends, and very little desire to make any...

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Hi Redstar

    If you are happy as you are, then you don't have a problem.

    I have lots of Friends and People I talk to including girls but I don't want them round me all the time and while I know that wouldn't suit everyone, to me there are times when these friends can get in the way of what I am doing.

    My passion is restoring Cars and very few girls want to sit around and watch while you are doing that and if I have any guy friends come round, they either want to help but don't have the skill.

    Or else they want to talk to me about what I am doing, which means that I then have to stop what I'm doing in order to talk to them and I hate anyone watching me while I am Spraying a Car, as it tends to put me off which means I make the kind of mistakes, that would never have happened, if I had been all on my own.

    But when the Car is finished, then that's a different story and that is the best time to phone a girl up and have a great day out, or call up one of my guy friends, who might fancy a run out in a Car I've just rebuilt.

    I also go to Parties and other Social events, like Barbecues and days out at the Beach.

    But only when I want to, so I pick and choose my Social life and not let it pick me.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Doesn't it all come down to how people act in a social circle? Isn't this the most natural form?

    Problem is: I have no friends, and very little desire to make any...

    I am in the same exact situation and I tend to agree. It really sucks when you want to go out but then you look like some dork or weirdo standing around by yourself. This happened to me last night and it was a rather sobering experience. I found a place only a few miles from where I live. I get there and wind up talking to a guy who works there most of the time(he wasn't really a bouncer but more like a host). He was polite and willing to talk but he could tell I was not really there to talk to him. I think he understood on some level how much it sucks to go out by yourself but this is what happens when you have no friends. I stayed for about an hour. I barely said anything to anyone who didn't work there. I briefly spoke to a woman who was there with her boyfriend and not much else. Eventually I just left.

    I think one solution and one I am looking into(aside from online game where you don't really need social value)is to hit the places where you can dance. If you can dance you can get women and it won't matter much if you are there with people are not. The reality is not everyone has friends and not everyone wants to put the effort into making friends. I'm actually a rather good looking guy(my mirror tells me this but I've also been told this by both men and women in the past)so it's not that I think I'm too ugly to get women or anything. Simply put, not having a social circle has hurt my game and prevented me from going out and being successful. Right now I'm looking for a good wing man but that is kind of tough to find too apparently. So from now on it's either online or dance floor game for me.

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    I have found all the wing men I've met to be annoying...

    One thing that works is just to be social with other guys while you're there... It's not like you need to get their Facebook or anything, just don't be a dick for no reason...

    Come to think of it... If I can't make male friends, something must be wrong with me...

    It's the social man that survives in this day and age...

    One time, I got a number from a stripper... She texted me the next day, but one thing she was asking me the whole night was, "where are your friends?"...

    I don't think it's necessary to run with a crew, but just be able to socialize...

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Hi Mike

    Ok we have established that you like to Dance but maybe find it awkward to be there by yourself, without a circle of friends to be around.

    So my advice for what its worth would be to go to 'Salsa' 'Le Roc' or 'Ballroom' Dance Classes'

    While that may not sound your Cup of 'Tea'

    The main advantage is, that everybody turns up on their own and everyone is learning the Steps and making mistakes together and the women almost always outnumber the men.

    In the Case of 'Salsa' Classes, you don't stay with the same partner all night, as you change your partner everytime that you learn a new Step.

    And you certainly won't feel awkward or be stuck for conversation.

    While some might actually go along to these places to learn how to dance, a lot of people just go along to meet other people and in no time at all you could find yourself a girl to take to a Club, or the kind of places that you prefer to go.

    At least that will get you into the game of having a circle around you and you might even find 'Miss Right' on the very first night.
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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Finding a girl at the dance class would be cheating...

    Anyone with a brain would agree with me...

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Hi Redstar

    In that case, I agree with you (Lol)

    But if you don't have a very wide circle of friends, then it is the ideal place to get some practice in.
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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Not any better than any other place...

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Quote Originally Posted by alphabeta View Post
    Hi Mike

    Ok we have established that you like to Dance but maybe find it awkward to be there by yourself, without a circle of friends to be around.

    So my advice for what its worth would be to go to 'Salsa' 'Le Roc' or 'Ballroom' Dance Classes'

    While that may not sound your Cup of 'Tea'

    The main advantage is, that everybody turns up on their own and everyone is learning the Steps and making mistakes together and the women almost always outnumber the men.

    In the Case of 'Salsa' Classes, you don't stay with the same partner all night, as you change your partner everytime that you learn a new Step.

    And you certainly won't feel awkward or be stuck for conversation.

    While some might actually go along to these places to learn how to dance, a lot of people just go along to meet other people and in no time at all you could find yourself a girl to take to a Club, or the kind of places that you prefer to go.

    At least that will get you into the game of having a circle around you and you might even find 'Miss Right' on the very first night.
    That sounds like a good idea and I'll look into it. However, a long time ago I took dance classes once(I had a free coupon or something)and none of the women there wanted to dance with me. Maybe they were all married(I'm not sure). So I wound up dancing with the female dance instructor which definitely was not a bad thing at all. Regardless though I wouldn't want a repeat of that where the women won't dance with me. This wasn't a salsa class but it was still rather depressing to not have a single woman want to dance with me(other than the hot dance instructor who of course was married).

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    Default Re: Agree or disagree: if you have no "social circle game," then you have n

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Finding a girl at the dance class would be cheating...

    Anyone with a brain would agree with me...
    How the heck is that cheating? Cheating would be going to a prostitute not a dance class. LOL.


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