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    randomdude12 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default girlfriend troubles

    Havent been here in a long time. Me and my gf have been together for over a year now.

    Now i just want her to want me more. the basic summary of why i am here. is because i want her to want me more sexually and more physically.

    I am handsome, i have everything a girl can desire. But lately i feel like we have less sex and i feel like she doesnt want me as bad as before. And i cant help but feel i may be doing something wrong. may be overdoing it.

    But the more i feel she doesnt want to make love with me, the more i feel like she doesnt want me or what not. I want to change this. i want her to want me more. I want her to get on top of me and want me. I feel like i always have to seduce her and ten sometimes shell say im not in the mood or im too tired or i dont know.

    Anyways. the only things i may be doing wrong, is perhaps showing too much jealousy, perhaps being too

    Shes a 10, and its hard for me not to be jealous, she has a million guys commenting and sending her messages on facebook, instagram and all social networks.
    Now she tells me everytime she ignores them and that she only loves me.

    Dont get me wrong. We do have a good relationship.
    Its just i want her to want me more. Thats why i am here.

    Thank you!

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    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    What is your lifestyle like. Forget the girlfriend, what is your daily life like ?

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    randomdude12 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    Well i work from home. So i usually just work all day at home and then go to the gym in the evening. Shes in her last year of school. ( im 20 shes 17). But usually ill go see her at like 4 pl and we go for a coffee or whatever shes home for a bit. Starting to think i should try to see her less.
    Generally i want her to miss me more to want me more. Not sure what to do.

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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    Hopefully 17 isn't her last year of school.

    You better start acting alpha quick, she will move on in another year unless you're a true badass.

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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    Take a random holiday for 3 days.
    When she calls: "we're are you?"
    You: Bali
    her: wtf, why?
    you: Saw an ad, said " Travel to Bali Now!" So here I am. Call you when I'm back. (Hang up)

    Bring her a 10 cent bracelet and say: "what's for dinner?"

    Ive never seen a girl get more shocked then doing this to her. I believe it's 180 degrees, go from boring, complacent, reliable and safe 2 unpredictable, mysterious and dangerous plus you put her in shock. She will be so intrigued and curious about you and she will feel like should be angry but the shock won't let her so she will be going through s belief/emotion roller coaster.

    If she asks why she wasn"t invited
    just say: it wasn't school holidays ( but never give her more in your answer)
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    Wow wait..... Just read she's 17 lol.

    every time she asks for something just say NO. Isn't that how high school crushes work?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    haha, we always have to get the fine print out of these posters Tyrone. Lol, I will try that sometime though about Bali... I just demolished one cutie who always said that her men "come running back". I said okay


    2 months pass later.

    Me
    "Wassup, having fun yet ?"

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    Default Re: girlfriend troubles

    Hi Randomdude

    How does your Jealousy manifest itself?

    Are you always calling her out, over other guys and being very possessive or raising objections if She wants to go out on her own.

    It may be your reaction to the attention She gets from other guys that could be the problem.

    Does She openly Flirt with other guys in front of you and stuff like that.

    Apart from that from what you've said, it doesn't sound as if you lead a very exciting life (in her eyes)

    You work all day, you go to the Gym (Rinse and Repeat)=You becoming 'The Bore Friend'

    Being Handsome, (Rich?) and Successful, is not always enough (in some girls eyes) and in those circumstances, having Sex can seem no more than going through the motions, as far as She is concerned.

    If you watch any Action Movie, nothing ever seems to go according to the Plan and there is danger and excitement at every twist and turn, to which the Female 'Love Interest' is hopelessly addicted.

    And so in order to get her really turned on and wanting you like crazy, I think you need to rethink your downtime and even manufacture situations, that will completely take her by Surprise by turning yourself into a sort of Mister Unpredictable, who is full of Surprises.

    There is nothing girls love more than a bit of Conflict and Excitement.

    So maybe its time to ease back on the Gym.

    And surprise her by taking her 'Paint Balling' or taking a rowing boat out for the day or taking her Clay Pidgeon Shooting.

    Just a few examples but I'm sure you get the idea.

    Hot Air Balooning, Fishing, Camping, Skating, Go Kart Racing, Absailing, Rock Climbing

    Anything that's very different to what you are doing now.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least


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