Re: Girlfriend meeting up with another guy
If she is inexperienced then you could go "Honest" and say:
"You have had an emotional long distance relationship with this guy for 3 years, in that time you have chosen to date me, now in the midst of our relationship you want to meet him alone, in a different city for 3 days with such a long history. After some thought, I have become uncomfortable with that idea but have no right to tell you what to do, this is how I feel, you decide what you want to do."
If she values you and your relationship she won't jeopardise it.
If she doesn't value you, then show her the same value.
if it's a matter of inexperience then being honest is best because that trains her on how to act in the future:
Should I give him my number?
Should I go upto his for coffee?
Should I accept his drink?
Honesty is great in relationships because you give them the power to treat you the way you want so they respect it and if they fail, there the cunt.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.