I have already successfully game closed with this Social butterfly (T-J-I). I like her sweet and fun nature. She does a lot of cute things to impress me. The best of all - she is very beautiful. All of these seem very tempting for me to consider her a long term relationship person.

But, there is one problem.

She always talks about herself, and never seems any bit curious about me, my family or my passion (intellectual stuff). I like to engage in conversations that are very intelligent as well. And she is this dreamer type.

Is there a way possible change reset her idealist nature into a realist nature? Because, one on my important turn on's is an intellectual person holding on to a passion of their own or atleast sharing mine by joining with me.