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    Dugly is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Friend's crus into me

    Hey everyone

    Recently I found my best friend crush is into me. She's been sending IOIs to to me for some time now. Though at first I thought she was just being polite (for she is) today she sent me a msg on private asking if I was going to a party we'r having tonight.
    My friend thinks he is in love with her and he gets really anxious when they'r both exchanging messages. I've known this guy for about 5 years and he is like a brother to me (I mean, for real. Not a brother but like a cousin, and a good one), and he always helped whenever i came to him complaining about an ITIS. If it were anybody else I wouldn't give a damn, but I'm confunde about what to do.

    Though the girl is hot and very pretty, I don't like her to the point of dating or having anything serious, but my bro probably won't think it. What should I do? Risk my friendship and pick her or let this chance go?

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    Honcho is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    Bro's and spellcheck, before ho's

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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    I'd hit it.

    Just tell her to keep it a secret.

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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    That's a question only you can truly answer!

    Personally I think it would be weak as piss to do that to a friend, especially "Not a brother but like a cousin, and a good one"!
    They're not together so he does not own her nor does he have any right to keep her to himself and yes he may have severe case of oneitis and probably won't get anywhere with her but that's no reason to disrespect him.

    Part of being alpha is having good morals, be stronger than your feelings! There's a million other girls out there waiting to get laid but good friends are hard to come by! If he really is as good a friend as you say, then do the right thing by him.

    If you can't control your feelings around her then you need to decline her invite and any other advances towards you! If you can then you should friendzone her, turn her into your wingman and talk your friend up to her.

    And if that's not enough of an answer for you, reverse the situation: how would you feel if they did the same thing to you?

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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    Perhaps you should tell your friend what is going on. Good friends like that are extremely hard to come by. Do you intend on losing that relationship for a girl you don't care much for other then for a ONS? You can either tell your friend of what she's doing and or tell the girl that your friend is into her for more than what you want from her. Or do both, tell your friend and even if he gives you the blessing to go for it, tell the girl that your best friend is into her and that you've been getting vibes from her that you don't want to exploit for a short fling and risk losing a brother.

    She can either brush it off and pretend those vibes never happened or she can say fare enough and move on with her life. Whether your friend lets you go for it, I don't think it'd be a good idea for you to do so. At the end of the day, if you sleep with her, that experience will taint your relationship with your best friend for a very long time, probably forever.

    Bros before hos? Chicks before d*cks? Your personal choice.

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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    Bloke vs Bitch Scale 1:10

    1 Beer/Number Close
    Event(beach etc)/Fuck Close
    Quiet Drinks/Date
    1yr Friendship/5yr Relationship
    Night out/Anniversary
    Mates Child Birth/wedding

    Basically a scale of sacrifice blokes or mates on (left) of "/" and woman on (right).

    So I would not loose a great friend over a girl I'm not even planning on dating.

    The ego is two factors, the "I.d" & the "super ego"
    I.d : is the baby brain, when hungry, dirty, tired or hurt it crys, not caring about anyone else until it gets what it wants.
    Superego: Rational, Adult mind, (conscious) " if I do that it will irritate others"

    Ego: "how do I get what I want without hurting others?"

    Use it. Tell him that she is showing signs of interest to you but you value the friendship way too much to do anything since you are not looking for anything serious, but tell me if you move on so I can fuck her, because she is hot.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Friend's crus into me

    A true alpha male won't screw over a friend, because he knows he has LOTS of options.
    ;-)


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