Re: Friend's crus into me
Bloke vs Bitch Scale 1:10
1 Beer/Number Close
Event(beach etc)/Fuck Close
1yr Friendship/5yr Relationship
Mates Child Birth/wedding
Basically a scale of sacrifice blokes or mates on (left) of "/" and woman on (right).
So I would not loose a great friend over a girl I'm not even planning on dating.
The ego is two factors, the "I.d" & the "super ego"
I.d : is the baby brain, when hungry, dirty, tired or hurt it crys, not caring about anyone else until it gets what it wants.
Superego: Rational, Adult mind, (conscious) " if I do that it will irritate others"
Ego: "how do I get what I want without hurting others?"
Use it. Tell him that she is showing signs of interest to you but you value the friendship way too much to do anything since you are not looking for anything serious, but tell me if you move on so I can fuck her, because she is hot.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.