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    Default Re: Questions on how to proceed after first date

    Quote Originally Posted by tonystark88 View Post
    You can still banter a little but a lot of puas say use the text for setting up the date or phone. I'm a very confident guy I'm just not ignorant of competition so wanted to set up another date. I'm not texting her all the time, asking how she is blah blah but rather just finding out when she is free since like you guys said someone has to take the lead.
    I don't really care for what a lot of PUAs say about texting and how often it should be used, simply for the fact that my personal experience disproved that theory.

    One thing I noticed though... those who say "use the text for setting up the date or phone" tend to be rather afraid of messing up and/or getting themselves into a position where they talk too much on text, and realise there is nothing left to say in person. But you just have to be aware of what you are doing, and you'll be fine.

    Find out for yourself what's the truth though.

    Anyways I realized I had tickets to a show this tuesday so I asked her, she said she would check her schedule and let me know, but the artist was her favorite. So I'll wait and see. Though the vibe I'm getting this time is hard to read. I figure in general most girls would probably respond to find out who the concert was about. It was kind of short messages no real bantering. so I'll wait and see if she gets back no biggie.
    If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't use those tickets on her. It's her favourite artist. She could string you along, act interested, and dump you after the show. Get her out with something else; that allows you to gauge her interest better.

    BUT... if you reckon it's fine going along with your original plan, then just drop her a text after the weekend. Never mind who gets back to who first. Take the lead on this one.

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    Default Re: Questions on how to proceed after first date

    Quote Originally Posted by Jironasaurus View Post
    I don't really care for what a lot of PUAs say about texting and how often it should be used, simply for the fact that my personal experience disproved that theory.

    One thing I noticed though... those who say "use the text for setting up the date or phone" tend to be rather afraid of messing up and/or getting themselves into a position where they talk too much on text, and realise there is nothing left to say in person. But you just have to be aware of what you are doing, and you'll be fine.

    Find out for yourself what's the truth though.





    If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't use those tickets on her. It's her favourite artist. She could string you along, act interested, and dump you after the show. Get her out with something else; that allows you to gauge her interest better.

    BUT... if you reckon it's fine going along with your original plan, then just drop her a text after the weekend. Never mind who gets back to who first. Take the lead on this one.

    Hey so no I'm not afraid to talk it just seems more common since everyone is so busy. I just want to know at the end of the day if she is busy or just disinterested otherwise i'll move on. When you think both people have a good time and one person starts acting differently its hard to know if you read the situation wrong or other things happened in her life

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    Default Re: Questions on how to proceed after first date

    Not saying you are afraid, just that loads of people use that as an excuse. Don't fall into that trap.

    Sometimes, it's the small little things you do that turn people off. And of course sometimes, women overthink situations and interpret it differently from you.

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    Default Re: Questions on how to proceed after first date

    Quote Originally Posted by Jironasaurus View Post
    Not saying you are afraid, just that loads of people use that as an excuse. Don't fall into that trap.

    Sometimes, it's the small little things you do that turn people off. And of course sometimes, women overthink situations and interpret it differently from you.
    You are right. I'm kind of over it. I reached out today and asked if she checked her schedule and I got no response all day. She said she was down to meet again, and answered me right away when i invited her to a show. I realize its hard to tell someone you dont want to meet but at least saying she was busy or something. Especially when she met she said she is very honest person and as an adult at her age doesn't have to for games or people who don't act nice. I probably wont response but I'm tempted too in a couple days. At least if someone invites you to do something and make an effort just respond

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    Default Re: Questions on how to proceed after first date

    It's just part of the learning process. On to the next one then.


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