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Thread: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

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    Default Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    Alright, here's what happened.

    Met a girl on Tinder named Caroline. She was really into me and things were going well. Went on a date with her and made out with her during the date. Also want to mention I tried splitting the bill with her at dinner, but she didn't want to pay (I should have paid, but it's in the past).

    Never heard from her after the date. Started trying to text her again. Her responses started becoming lame and took a long time for her to respond. Kept flaking and making excuses for future dates.

    Decided to try something different as I knew she was no longer into me. I texted her and told her that she was lucky that I texted her, and basically that she was fat and ugly. She immediately texted me back and told me how she thought I was an ass hole on our first date which is why she never went out with me again. She said she was going to block my number and called me an asshole.

    The next day her friend texts me and tells me how much of an asshole I am and how I should never talk to Caroline like I did.

    Fast forward to now. She has not blocked my phone number, or deleted me on Snapchat. And that she told her friend about me means something too I think. I really liked this girl though. Any way to get her back?

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    Hi Alphamale22

    Let's face it you've gone and blown it and have no chance of getting her back.

    If you ask a girl on a date, then You are expected to Pay, at least the first time and probably times after that, so the fact you didn't do so has labled you a 'Tight Wad' in her eyes, because it shows you didn't value her and probably embarrased her as well.

    Once a relationship gets going, then you can talk about splitting the Bills but not beforehand, as it doesn't work like that.

    Dating is horrendously expensive these days: Even a Cup of Coffee and a piece of Cake can cost you $$$$

    So if you cannot Pay you cannot Play and because of that you've shown her what sort of Boyfriend you would make.

    Next time pay up and look Big, or else take her somewhere that won't cost you as much like a ride out in your Car or something like that.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    LMAO. I like trolls. You guys have great stories.

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    You called her and told her she was fat and ugly. Lol, are you 12, because she sure thinks you are.


    Id stay far away from that one, hopefully she didn't save your texts to show other people.

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    Good Luck bro! It's always really a shame to hear about stuff like this!

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaMale22 View Post
    Alright, here's what happened.

    Met a girl on Tinder named Caroline. She was really into me and things were going well. Went on a date with her and made out with her during the date. Also want to mention I tried splitting the bill with her at dinner, but she didn't want to pay (I should have paid, but it's in the past).

    Never heard from her after the date. Started trying to text her again. Her responses started becoming lame and took a long time for her to respond. Kept flaking and making excuses for future dates.

    Decided to try something different as I knew she was no longer into me. I texted her and told her that she was lucky that I texted her, and basically that she was fat and ugly. She immediately texted me back and told me how she thought I was an ass hole on our first date which is why she never went out with me again. She said she was going to block my number and called me an asshole.

    The next day her friend texts me and tells me how much of an asshole I am and how I should never talk to Caroline like I did.

    Fast forward to now. She has not blocked my phone number, or deleted me on Snapchat. And that she told her friend about me means something too I think. I really liked this girl though. Any way to get her back?
    You say you like her but....
    But you ACTUALLY don't like her (speaking in reverse psychology) you actually NEVER liked her. This is the way you you should look at it from now on (not just her but ALL women) because in fact......

    Feelings fade
    Texting blow ups fade away
    Attraction tends to wane
    Dates don't guarantee it will pave the way

    But there is one thing YOU CAN DO
    ONE THING you can prove

    Now this is entirely new something a new attitude I have created just last night.

    Thinking about the ditching, the flaking, the lying. I thought I get mad great I am better at channeling my anger SO GIRLS STILL keep talking to me and seeing me when I tell them I am mad for ditching or whatever but does that help ME?

    DOES IT HELP ME?

    DOES IT EMPOWER ME?

    Then I thought payback,payback, payback

    But I'm too much of a nice guy to be careless to be heartless so I said payback but be nice about it.

    So I messaged the girl I was mad at for ditching me earlier this Spring (we haven't talked in a few months) she said she can't go can't go can't go. Then popped up at HarryPotterVille, with friend's at Restaurants, etc So I said you don't want to hang out with me do you? She was like no I do but I need a better schedule let's hang out this Summer blah blah, that's how I got on Tinder and met the Stripper which is besides the point.

    The point is she was ditching me and I was mad and I even vocalized my sadness and my anger. But instead I killed it with kindness but in a way it was payback for the ditching.

    I KNEW SHE WAS GOING TO DITCH but I did this on purpose to make her feel the pain I felt
    So I said....
    "I'm going downtown next weekend to hit up the bars for drinking and aimless wandering if you want to join me."
    She was like
    "This weekend or next? I am working this weekend and all July 4th weekend which really blows. Maybe a Friday"
    I was like
    "Yeah that blows a bunch of bad apples I really wanted to see you. July 4th weekend I meant. Sure any friday you want."

    What did I do there? I TOOK BACK THE POWER. I have a plan to meet up with the Stripper next weekend but I know how bad girls are these days so I am pre-planning the ditching from now on. So I was basically setting up a thing with 2 chicks on the same day. The Stripper at the Strip Club and then my homegirl for later that night since I think they both might ditch.

    Anyway I was cracking up at how well it played out. Because I pushed the dagger in a fresh wound. Before I was sad and depressed about her doing all this fun stuff without me. But then I was like do fun stuff without her. Let her reject herself basically which will make her sad. Basically doing what she did to me in a crafty way. Now she is all bummed out see that she can't hang with me. So I made it seem like it was this great thing without making it seem like I was all hung up on the outcome.

    She must be hating life she can't hang with me hahaha and that was my goal since I knew she was going to say no I wanted her to suffer for her choices. In other words it worked.

    If you play me prepare to pay me.

    So in that way I killed her with kindness. I was over the interaction mad at the 3 ditches. Then I just made her head spin thinking that way it sounds like she will have a rough weekend for sure without me and my plan is to recruit some new betches while I am out after meeting up with the stripper.


    So that is my new plan. When getting ditched.
    To kill em with kindness
    Put down the weapons I am fighting and be like

    Go ahead go ahead go ahead now woman do what you came to do. If she wants to ditch me I'll make sure she ditches me right and encourage the ditching. If she is out screwing around on me then I will encourage her and tell her to whore around more. I will tell them do it better do it faster. If they ditch me next time oh boy.

    Prepare for the apocalypse of nice because I will break it down like

    "Oh you can't make it" Yeah yeah no problem you need time off? I need some major time off!! I am going buck wild tonight!! Anything goes!!" time to get in on the action.

    That's what I am talking about being a super a-hole but being nice about it so it looks like I am being nice so I am putting out the fire before it is started because I will feel good while she will feel like crap for being a betch but I will only deploy this secret weapon upon the ditching and flaking that I often face.

    If I am thirsty and there is no water I will make them pay and there is something that hurts more than blasting some broad. Something that has always hurt me the most. Being hurt by the ones you love with the...truth. So I will give them the truth.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack

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    Default Re: Need Help Getting Girl After Bad First Date

    Good lesson for me. You were needy and butthurt. So you lashed out and got nothing for it. Thanks. Now I won't make the same mistake. IDGAS. I don't give a shit. NEXT.


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