Re: Advice for getting back into the game and getting laid
You've lost your Vehicle and you've also gone and lost your license.
For whatever reason that happened, its your fault and you have got to own it, then when you get your license back be very determined to never ever go and make that mistake again.
The only saving grace you have in that situation, is that lots of guys your age don't drive, so while your situation 'sucks' its not the end of the World regards getting a girlfriend.
The next thing that you need to do, is to not to panic, over owing money and having so many jobs that you need to hold down.
So what you need to do right now, is to get yourself 'Centered' and properly focused.
People have been through much worse than that and still come out on top.
Fortunately you have got Youth on your side and I don't know many of your age who haven't properly F****d up at some time but looking again on the Positive side, it seems you seem to know it and as such are doing all you can to get your life back on track.
Instead of just aimlessly wandering round in a 'fools paradise' by thinking that everything is ok when its not.
So give yourself Credit for at least that much.
Also remember that everyone starts off as Beta, which may mean you have to rewind, get yourself re-centered and then Start from Scratch.
But having said that, how do you know that your Beta? and does that really matter anyway?
How many Girlfriends do you want? One of those is more than enough for most people and too much for some!
And don't let others convince you otherwise.
Though most of all remember what I am going to tell you now.
It's only what you say to yourself, when other People stop Talking.
So you need to be your own Person and not follow the Crowd.
Sometimes People who F***Up are the most interesting, as they have something about them, that other guys don't have.
So maybe there could be a bid of a 'Bad Ass' in there, which I think we all agree is very attractive to girls, even though they all try and deny it.
In which case don't look for excuses: Too many Jobs, Not enough money, Too little time.
Celebrate the fact that you are different and if you work around Hot Girls, stop trying to convince yourself you're Beta (It's only a word!) not a Lifestyle.
So if you see a girl you fancy then 'Flirt' with her, build a rapport and then ask her out.
Even Beta guys can get a girlfriend! but even so I just don't think you're really one of those, so just stop trying to convince yourself you really are.
Then over time you will find that all the pieces start to fall in place, because at least you know where you Screwed up.
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least