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    Default Creating Flirtation?

    Hey guys, I used to be avid consumer/practitioner of pick up styles and methods, but lately I've become stale. Specifically, I've gotten a lot worse at creating a flirtatious vibe in my conversation. I have no problem at all getting to know people's ideals, beliefs, etc. in a fundamental human/friendship way, but I'm struggling greatly with touching upon a completely different type of conversation: flirting.

    My usual method of flirting is to mildly tease the girl or some incidental touching, and if I get a solid response, that allows me to transition to other things. However, if I don't get a playfully flirty vibe back from teasing/touching, my arsenal is completely empty.

    So, my question is: What are some flirting techniques I can employ to create flirtation (from scratch) when she isn't signaling back? More broadly, what are some mindsets I should have when trying to create a flirtatious vibe? Any articles you guys can point me too would be really helpful as well.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Creating Flirtation?

    Hi Valesti

    Girls love guys who 'flirt' with them, they don't spend all that time in the bedroom stood in front of the mirror and putting on their 'Warpaint' and then hoping nothing will happen.

    And from my own experience girls are more in favour of the direct approach with no 'faffing around' as they want to know and need to know that all the trouble they went to in making themselves look 'Hot' was all worthwhile and that includes the married ones and those that have a BF.

    So whenever I see a girl I like, this is how I start the Conversation from 'Stone Cold' (one of them anyway)

    Lets say that I go into a store to buy something and get served with the item, by a 'Hot' looking girl.

    At this point I usually pause and then in a 'Theatrical Way' remove the Shades I'm wearing and then stand right in front of her and look her up and down very slowly, in a way you would do if you saw something you liked.

    Then I just go 'Balls out and say' 'I think I've fallen in love again' with a 'Big Smile' on my face.

    Not as hard to do as it sounds, as you haven't specifically said that you have fallen in love with 'Her' which helps to take away approach anxiety.

    Then when (not if She smiles back at you) follow that up by saying, 'Do you know what, you're the Smileyest person that I've met all day'

    And then I say 'I'm taking you out!' what time do you want picking up? (Big Smile)

    While I know that might sound quite hardcore to those with 'approach anxiety' (our old friend rears its ugly head again)

    As there are so few words involved, before you scare yourself silly they just come tumbling out of your mouth before you get a chance to over think it.

    That little Play is almost a guaranteed 'Ice Breaker' which should get a Conversation going at which point you watch her to see how She reacts.

    If its not going to happen, then She won't be giving you green lights and leading you on but if you're fairly confident without being too 'Cocky' then it works a lot more times than maybe you would think.

    Another favourite one of mine, which I always tend to use during a dead Conversation where you just can't get a spark, is to look at her and say 'You're much too young for me!' right out of nowhere and right in the middle of any dead Conversation that you are having.

    Which very subtly implies that you've been thinking only of her during all the time you've been talking and this is massively flattering, when used on an older women, as they really lap up all that shit.

    Or even better if you've got the Balls, just walk right up to her and say 'What time can you be ready I'm taking you out!'

    That's a very 'Left Field' approach that She won't be expecting, as it just comes out of nowhere and will knock her socks right off.

    Where again it is not very 'Wordy' and as such very easy to say, then watch how She reacts and go from there.

    Or a variation on that theme, 'Wow that's a really great hairstyle' who did that for you?

    I've found 'The Cocky Funny Stuff' only works with those who have the kind of Confidence to really pull it off, or else you can so easily, end up looking a 'Chump' although I'll introduce a bit of that stuff later on, like maybe during a date as opposed to before it.

    Also one of my favourite sayings, when assessing a 'Target' is 'The Higher the Heels the bigger the Flirt'
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    Default Re: Creating Flirtation?

    So tell me again how much you love me. (I have never told you that) Oh..... that wasn't you..... uh, well, so DO tell me how much you love me......
    (I kind of don't)
    You don't LOVE ME? I am devastated..... you are so beautiful and wonderful..... I feel ALIVE when I am with you.......
    Or some such nonsense along those lines.


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