I've just been thinking recently and said to myself that I'll never trust a girl again, they are not trust worthy. As I was reading a little while ago, man is a creature of his word, woman is not.
So if the emotion is not right, women may even lie to make it right, to avoid discomfort. (They are born liars, I'm not saying men are perfect either though, don't get me wrong.) That's why when I started out I felt PUA was to much work and that it was to much "manipulation." But I learned pretty much all social interaction is manipulation and that women are real tricky, playing the game keeps them in a very safe position, so learning the game is very essential. What PUA really is, is a means for you to get better as a person. Mystery said, "Let it enrich your life, not define it."
- A girl has to earn trust through pure hard commitment from you - Screw that soulmate crap, that's only in fairy tails. This is real life man, this ain't no movie.
So how do you balance this out, is it possible to get high commitment from her with low commitment coming from your side? Without trying so hard, cause women don't really seem worth all the trouble.
Maybe I dable too much in the philosophical, strategy side of it, and don't go out gaming enough, maybe I've never actually had a real relationship ever, but am I really missing out? (Yeah girls apparently have great potential to make me happy too) But should I also not consider playing the game from a standpoint that keeps myself in a safe dominant position? Even worse I'm extremely picky about women too, I have to many standards. I just don't know sometimes. I refuse to settle for low quality garbage, that doesn't reciprocate well.