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    Skeptikill is offline PUA in Training
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    Default RE: Bitter thoughts

    I have been in the game maybe 4 years and am at the rate of about 1 notch a month 99% from night game with mostly ONS. I am honestly very happy with my life and how things are going. I find that in the last year I have been a bit sour and tend to voice my non PC opinions too much. I have no problem when I am completely sober but when I am drunk, when girls do stupid shit it just pisses me off and I logic them which in turn just pisses them off and losing me the set. At times I can do things great and others I can logic them too much and discuss guy girl dynamics in an uncalibrated way which I know is stupid since it doesnt matter if what I say is the truth and is exactly how it is, it still doesnt change how people perceive it. A girl doesnt want to hear why she does stupid things.

    I am looking for advice on how to get rid of my thoughts of resentment and help me accept how it is and deal with it. I imagine its actually a frequent issue.

    Consuming less alcohol is one think i have begun to do but I really wish to solve the root of this issue. The way of the superior man is one book that has helped me with some inner turmoil but I feel there is more.

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    alphabeta is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Bitter thoughts

    Hi Skeptikill

    You are just being 'honest' and that doesn't always pay to share those thoughts and Yes! its very easy to find yourself feeling resentful with the way that some girls behave.

    As sometimes they expect too much for too little in return and so I'm not ashamed to say 'I use them'

    First off I don't need them as in the music business, I meet girls all the time and so I'm quite happy to 'Window Shop' without getting too much involved.

    When you watch how some of them carry on and interact with People, you can see just how much of a problem that they are going to be for anyone who's stupid enough to want a relationship with them.

    So while I am quite happy to hang out and have a flirt with them and maybe on occaisions have a one night stand, though nowhere near as often as yourself.(Lol)

    When I know there could be trouble brewing, then I know its time to disconnect so as not to let my heart rule my head.

    Thankfully they are not all like that and I do meet some really nice girls but I still don't want a relationship as they are always far too much hard work.

    And so that when it comes to girls I have my eyes wide open and my brain switched on but my mouth closed and then I'm able to accept that when I take a girl out, 'it is what it is' so I'm always more than happy to put up with whatever She may want to throw at me, being very secure in the knowledge that after the 'fun' is over, in what ever form that may be.

    I will be walking away from that totally unscathed.

    So really better not to over think it, after you have had your fun then just walk away and one day when you meet the one You'll know it.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Jironasaurus is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Bitter thoughts

    Check out the sedona method. It helped me a lot, and I believe it will help you too.

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    LA.OC.Skater is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Bitter thoughts

    This may not be helpful, but handle your shit. Period. I have just noticed in myself that I sometimes slip into a negative mode of thinking. Then, I can't Game. Write a note on an index card and stick it in your wallet. "Don't be an asshole". "Don't be negative." Pull it out and look at it from time to time.


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