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    Herxo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Buddies too different

    Hi guys had a question that I hope to get some help with....
    I go out sarging with two different wingmen one is a tall very good looking blond surfer and the other is a tatted up ex gangster. they are both naturals and get women so easily (I've seen my blond friend get threesomes so many times it's not even funny). Girls approach them. The gangster dudes game consists of staring at girls and it somehow works.

    I'm a web designer not very cool I know. Nothing at all like my two friends. I've Tried their approaches at pickup and they just don't work for me. I can get a girl a fraction of the time as them and I usually feel like it was not because of anything I did but because of my friends.

    I've tried being more outgoing and loud and in your face but that's just not me and it definitely shows. I've gone out alone many times with no success.
    Any suggestions would be appreciated

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    T-Mal is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: Buddies too different

    Don't try to pretend to be a certain way, if it's not who you are.
    It's not about being "loud & in people's faces"... It's about being FUN & CONFIDENT in who you genuinely are.

    Just don't be like all the typical schmucks who ask the same boring questions, or try to buy a girl a drink before even talking to her.

    "ALPHA" doesn't mean "Aggressive / Arrogant / Obnoxious"
    It means, being in control. That's all.

    And when you're in control of yourself (and your fears) then you are a TRUE ALPHA... and that's what women will respond positively to.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Herxo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Buddies too different

    Thanks. Your answer is very thoughtful. I guess I haven't learned how to compete with other guys or really that I don't have to

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    Dangerous is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Buddies too different

    You're not competing with other guys bro. Just your own head. Master that and the girls will come!

    Its a journey most of us are on!

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    Default Re: Buddies too different

    Like Dangerous said, its all in your head. Game is something you never stop learning or working on. There is always going to be something new, you're going to F**K UP, all you can do is learn from it. Just BE YOU! and BE CONFIDENT!


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