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    CapPickup is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Yoooooo I messed up bad...

    Alright so two days ago I went out with a couple of my friends from class to karaoke night. We only meet once a week for one class but we're pretty tight.

    Anyways on our way there I was talking to one of the girls whom I've never spoken to before. I found out we have a lot of things in common.

    So we're at the karaoke place we rented a private room and I sat next to her. We did a shot and then bam! . She was constantly touching my arms and then after that she started squeezing my leg under the table with her hands. MASSIVE IOI. She did that for about 5mins. But I was stupid cos I didn't do anything and just sang.

    Then my friend's friend show up lets call him 'ponytail Jackson'. Anyways at this point she was still full on squeezing my leg but again I was stupid. So after that dumbassery she said "I'm gonna make the birthday boy comfortable(ponytail Jackson)". Again I was numb and didn't do shit.

    fast forward she started flirting with ponytail Jackson and then I started flirting with the other chick that we were with while we kept stealing glances at each other.

    fast forward to the end we hugged goodbye for a good 15 seconds while I whispered "you have a great time" and she took a cab with ponytail Jackson.

    i walked the other chick home, she invited me up but I said " maybe next time".
    So yeah I literally killed two birds with one idiot brain.

    Whats wrong with me? I can't stop thinking about the leg squeezing girl. Seriously, every time I remember that massive IOI I have to voice out my frustration and punch a wall.

    Question, how do I get back from that dumbass move? I'm gonna see her again next week for class. Also im gonna be in a party with her in 3 weeks after our last class. So I got about 3 weeks to get back up from that knockout blow.

    thanks a lot. Please keep it 100% no sugar coating. I can take it. Thanks y'all! PEACE


    Yours truly,
    Dumbfuck who don't deserve a penis

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    Default Re: Yoooooo I messed up bad...

    You're feeling self-loathing, you might not even like her that much, but it's not her that's on your mind - but the fact that you wimped out when you shouldn't have. Don't beat yourself too much, *hit happens.

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    Default Re: Yoooooo I messed up bad...

    Well imo, it wasn't all bad. You learned from the experience and that is the main thing. We all make mistakes.

    When the other chick invited you up and you said maybe next time it could have been because the first one was still on your mind. You did the right thing here but then again maybe the other one got curious because she isn't used to guys saying no when she invites them up. You might want to see how things go with the other one.

    How to handle it in the future when this happens? Well, us guys aren't necessarily used to women doing things like squeezing our leg so it throws us off guard and we don't always know how to react or if we do we don't respond quick enough. Similar things have happened to me plenty of times. I remember one time I was in a bar and a woman backed up against me and I rubbed her back for about two minutes or so but when I eventually pulled away she left with her friends. Another time after a concert I hugged a woman for about two to three minutes but didn't escalate further(I probably could have kissed her).

    So just chalk it up as a learning experience and be more aware for next time.

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    Default Re: Yoooooo I messed up bad...

    Ponytail Jackson is an awesome name. My firstborn will adorn this title.

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    Default Re: Yoooooo I messed up bad...

    Whats wrong with me? I can't stop thinking about the leg squeezing girl. Seriously, every time I remember that massive IOI I have to voice out my frustration and punch a wall.

    Question, how do I get back from that dumbass move? I'm gonna see her again next week for class. Also im gonna be in a party with her in 3 weeks after our last class. So I got about 3 weeks to get back up from that knockout blow.
    CapPickup

    Thanks for sharing your story.

    The fact is, you should've started kissing her when she was feeling you up.

    You didn't, so she saw your true colours and moved on to "ponytail jackson".

    I know that you didn't take action because you were nervous, but the way SHE probably see's it is that you either don't find her attractive enough, or you are a weak little boy. Either place to be in is bad.

    If a woman is giving you signs like this, you need to act like a man and take what she is offering!

    I don't know if you can fix the situation, but you could try saying, "My nan died a couple of days ago," or "I just came out of a relationship." - [Something that would make it okay for you not acting like a man!]

    And then, if she shows you those signs again. For god sake, take what she is offering you!

    Ps. There is nothing wrong with you.
    Don't ever say there is. And delete that phrase from your vocabulary.


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