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Thread: She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

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    Post She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

    There is this girl in my office who frequently blow me kisses, hugs me and every time she passes me she touches me! I have seen her staring at me several times etc. One day I asked her to have dinner together and she said sure! Then we had our dinner tonight, and around the end of the dinner I asked her that what she thought of going out together. She said that she liked me in professional capacity and she wanted to separate work and professional life.

    I did not want to be needy so I just said if the issue was working together I was sure we could handle it. Then she said she was a difficult person and hard to handle! I said I liked her and I knew she liked me!

    Now I am so confused because she has been giving me IOIs for months! Now she says she does not like me although she thinks I am a beautiful person! WTF !!

    What do you guys recommend? Should I ask her out again later or should I just leave it here?

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    Default Re: She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

    Easy one. Tell her you are not interested in just a friendship, and that if she changes her mind to get in touch. You may have not escalated her either, playful touching/teasing etc and building comfort and trust. Its best to just ignore her, and move on. Sounds like she is testing your manly frame to me. Find another girl and take her out, cause thats what men do. More women you have in your life, the more attractive you become.

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    Default Re: She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

    On to the next one, you can let this one sit on the back burner for a few. Next time she shoots you an ioi shoot her an iod, nothing to major, just enough to let her your just not that into her anymore. If she has a close female co-worker start there, and make her jealous.

    But her line of "keep business and pleasure simple and separate" is total BS. Those levels of iois in the work place state other wise, not to mention she agreed to go out to dinner/ date with you. If the girl is into you as much as you say she is, you should be able to ice her hot and she will come back around.

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    Default Re: She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

    I definitely call shit test haha, if those IOI's were genuine and she's not a player (which she very well could be because her IOI's were not subtle at all) she's trying to see if you'll chase her, which you ought to not do. Or maybe when you went out she saw that she's really not into you because you're not what she had expected, nevertheless - I like sears first option

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    Default Re: She said no. Should I ask her out again?!

    Never get hung up on just one woman. It gives them too much power and makes you look weak. Spend more energy meeting more girls who aren't so flaky or false.


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