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    Mateo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Help With Newly Single Friend Of A Friend

    Hey guys,

    Need advice on this girl that's new to my social circle. She's my brother's girlfriend's best friend. She started hanging with the my group of friends about a month ago. She just moved back to the OC and just had her boyfriend, she was convinced she was gonna marry, breakup with her.

    We've hung out a in a group a bunch of times, and she's actually a really sweet down to earth HB7/8.

    I tease her all the time. Tell her she's annoying or a dork and she responds that I know I love her. She finds little reasons here and there to touch me or get close. She says I'm her favorite person in the circle of friends we hang out with. So I figured there was at least base line of attraction between us.

    Issue is she seems to be reluctant to be one on one with me, and is never really hooked when we text.

    She knows I've hooked up with one of her friends and I have a bit of a reputation for going after girls with boyfriends (more imagined and inflated than to do with reality or my skill.)

    I've flirted with other girls in front of her and she's seen the HB8.5 I kiss closed (The Check Out Girl from my other post.) This I figured would increase my social proof and demonstrate I was desirable to women.

    Now though I'm worried she may have gotten the impression I'm a player or something and that might be leading to her reluctance to be alone with me, since she's scared of being hurt again after what she just went through with her ex.

    Am I reading this wrong? What are your thoughts?

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    Mohamaddirani is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With Newly Single Friend Of A Friend

    Man up, if you have skills then she is not the last one in your life, escalate her every now and then so she gets that it is normal and she doesn't have to worry, tell her you find it good when you be with her (don't give her too much value just to make her confident and have a reason, and say you want to spend one evening with her in a cafe or doing activity (so she doesn't feel it is all about her) btw i am saying what i hear so if it didn't go well then i am sorry sude if ahe refused after this then you are friendzoned mate and cut her out of your life find another chick, and high your value by being a classmate and act with her just as a boring unpopular dude, maybe if she feel low value she will chase you

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    Mateo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With Newly Single Friend Of A Friend

    Actually your right I need to escalate and isolate her with something fun and low pressure. Kinda giving her a bit of a freeze out since she did flake on a hike this Sunday morning. If she flakes again I'll consider myself a new tenant of her friend zone, and move on to the next.

    One thing I don't really agree with is "cut her out of your life find another chick, and high your value by being a classmate and act with her just as a boring unpopular dude."

    Adam Lyons and Neil Strauss seem to make the point repeatedly that having a large group of female friends isn't a bad thing as long as you don't get hung up on them. Just walking into a bar or club with a good number of attractive female friends increases your social proof and makes you look less creepy.

    I might be wrong but if a chick doesn't work out, better to keep her as a friend you can have fun and playfully flirt with in public.

    Or am I looking at this wrong?

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    Mohamaddirani is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With Newly Single Friend Of A Friend

    Sorry, maybe you mistaken what i wrote, cut her...... , i meant just don't hope for a relationship or try with her, it's over you are just a friend act as that, don't give her too much value as you are trying hard, just as a guy friend, treat her like that, i totally agree mate, having big number of female friends is good, and you are right about first part isolate and kino escalate every now and then, i hope it work out tho.... One more thing, either things work out or didn't, you keep gaming so you increase your skill level

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