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    Default If a girl blocks you how should you react.

    Maybe it is my Ego or maybe it is my Pride but I hate being blocked by a hot girl I am pursuing and I get blocked A LOT. I am not trying to understand the reasons WHY. I am trying to only understand the HOW of what I am supposed to do. A lot of times I will have other contact information so if they block me on FB I may have their IG or if they block me on POF I may have their FB.

    It is just a really sticky situation that never really ends well. If they block me one place they typically keep blocking me everywhere else I try to hit them up. It just snowballs after that and I never really recover.

    I guess the worst part of the situation is AFTER them showing interest in me and IOI's or playing around then going freaking rage quit mode out of nowhere and blocking me. That leads me on thinking well I did have something good attraction wise I should try again just wondering wth to do because I am in this trap a lot.

    Like for instance a lot of my EX-GF's blocking me. It leads me to a self-destruction thinking hwo do I talk to not get ting blocked or how should I act to not getting blocked with the new girls and I hate this feeling. But when I am Gung Hu and not caring I think I get blocked the most. When I am more cautious at least I am surviving longer.


    What I would like to know in response to the blockage
    How do I respond
    What should I think
    What should I do

    I used to tell myself that I never made it 3 days after getting a phone number because I would get blocked. I guess I am afraid of them forgetting me or them finding someone else.


    I've tried the whole jealousy thing on FB but that didn't work. What's a good attitude to have towards not getting blocked or not caring?

    I've tried fighting back but that just makes matters worse. One of my sticking points and trying to get past it. FB and IG I get blocked a lot. Get blocked for NOT being myself and NOT caring about being myself. So it doesn't matter if congruent or not. It happens in and out even if I detect no element of failure on my end and owning everything I say they even sometimes blow me out harder when I am in the zone. Need Help.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: If a girl blocks you how should you react.

    "I am not trying to understand the reasons WHY" You have the what - they keep blocking you, by knowing the what you can decipher the why, by knowing the why you can decipher the how

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    Default Re: If a girl blocks you how should you react.

    So you are saying I should play by ear? I am trying to figure out this now. Before I keep making the same mistakes over and over. I am trying to place it correctly in my head. I look at it like a daunting project how many calls before I get blocked how many unanswered texts cuz you know they ghost you a lot.

    I am just trying to figure how to stop disrupting my life for some bad girl trying to hang me out to dry. At one point I knew what to do. To stop paying attention to it. Like you know you got blocked cuz you are worried about it. And worry leads to more worry. So sometimes I get steamrolled hardcore. Send something and they show interest. Then send more stuff and they show IOD and I get worried so i try to recover and sometimes send like 10 messages and then I get blocked and look weak and at the worst time.

    I said well I shouldn't pay attention to it. And by attention I mean to the responses and therefore possible blockage. So it is not just a mentality but a strategy.

    It is like this. If I cut it out say f.. it and stop thinking about therefore stop paying attention I will therefore also have to create a mentality that says I am just focused on myself, building my own empire and doing my own. That is the only way I win. If I am trying to cater to some broad yeah I can wing a couple dates and manipulate myself into a relationship but because I try to push it so hard so many times blocking is just the order of the day.

    If I stop pushing it is like oh a message here or there every couple weeks, months, years etc WHEN I NEED SOMETHING. You know the order of the day cuz guys are like "I sent her message and it was a few hours and she didn't reply" you know the constant need to keep things going the brutal upkeep.

    But saying the hell with that it is like she doesn't respond so I get back to her WHEN I want not just because a few hours went by.

    Here is what I do know what is working right now.

    Getting back to them on my schedule (again no time limits)
    Inviting them to things I like
    Telling them things I want

    For instance I invited a hot chick to party with me in Vegas next year in 8 months and she said yes.
    I got back to a chick a year in between and also asked her to a music festival late next year
    I told a hot chick I will rent out her room for like $500 a month in a couple years when my parents sell their house

    So I doing things away from the traditional dating. The traditional dating the women have been generally asking me out. Right now I am trying to take a hot chick to Vegas and try to find a new hot roommate. So I am focusing on those things not really trying to date chicks cuz they are looking pretty over the whole dating scene so I have to change up my game. We'll see how it goes over the years.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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