I've been working on getting into a long term thing with this girl. I want her to fall deep for me. I can't meet her often as she and her family are very protective of her. I keep in touch through text, phone call and FaceTime a lot. There's plenty of guys out there who want her as well but she's told me she's interested in me as well but I need to maintain or make her interest grow or she'll get bored and I'll lose her. I've never really been good at attraction, comfort and seduction method. So I need clarity and steps on how I can go about this? Once I can make sense of it putting it into practice is not a problem rather than using canned material (I only use those when I'm completely blank)
Our conversations run from general to light personal questions but nothing deep and I want to get it to that stage e.g. Her past relationships. How can I bring it to that stage?
Our phone call/FaceTime convos go on for hours but I feel I need to focus on certain topics of conversations if I want her to fall for me. What are the right topics to focus on?
I also need to test her by challenging her in different ways. Would she make amendments if an argument broke out or she'd leave it, stuff like that. It'll help me judge how I'm progressing as well so I need ways to challenge her?
I'll be updating regularly until I feel I can take things in my own hands.
Any useful help and constructive criticism is welcome