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    Default Women smiling at me in public

    Every once in a while when I'm out shopping or whatever a woman will smile at me. Usually it's a very brief smile often not much of a smile at all. Usually I ignore it and rarely even smile back. If she's cute I might say something but not necessarily. Sometime last month I struck up a conversation with a woman who did this at a book store but I didn't really know what to say and was on my way out so I left. I suppose I could have said something like "you know I'm on my way out but you seem nice so why don't you give me your number and we can get together some time."

    So anyway, what I would like to know is what does a smile mean? Does it mean she's interested or just being polite? Also, how do I respond when a woman smiles? What are the best things to say and what are the best ways to see if she's interested and maybe get a number? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Like the majority of questions on here, this is way too general and you need to go out and take action this before you ask .

    Women will smile for tons of reasons. You could be exactly her type, she could be conditioned to just doing it to look nice cause people tell her she has a "bitchy face" her whole life, or she could be laughing at something she thought of in her head.

    The truth is this is one of those moments where you're going to have to be a man, be vulnerable, and find out for yourself because it isn't going to be the same answer all the time. You'll get a mixed bag here. But in the end you'll get more women for going out there and doing it.

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Say this:

    Hi, I'm Mike, what's you're name? (Have a smile on your face)


    thats all it takes, doesn't need to be clever or original, just introduce yourself. Just like you would if you met anyone else for the first time.

    then establish your intension.

    then a simple "give me your number"

    works every single time.

    If she says "I've got a boyfriend" I usually laugh and say "suck shit"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Say this:

    Hi, I'm Mike, what's you're name? (Have a smile on your face)


    thats all it takes, doesn't need to be clever or original, just introduce yourself. Just like you would if you met anyone else for the first time.

    then establish your intension.

    then a simple "give me your number"

    works every single time.

    If she says "I've got a boyfriend" I usually laugh and say "suck shit"
    Wait, let me get this right. As soon as she smiles I introduce myself? Then after that I ask for her number? I just say something you like "you seem fun. Give me your number?" Wow. I guess it couldn't hurt.

    If she says she has a boyfriend I would just say "does he know you go around smiling at random guys?"

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    A smile is an "indicator of interest" (ioi) whether she has a boyfriend or not. Think of it this way that both men and women check out other men and women even if they already have a partner. For men it's a physical attraction and women are looking for the next best thing; at least from my experience.

    Women are crazy they will kiss other chicks and make out with you in front of their boy or behind his back.

    What you said about "telling her you were leaving and asking for her digits" is perfect. Good! Do this.
    In Pick Up this is called a "false time constraint". Works wonders.

    Breakdown of what you did:

    1) Opened
    2) Built Rapport

    ... However you failed to "number close" her. Don't worry there will be many more future opportunities. In short interactions at places like the store it is great to go direct. You will sense a moment when the conversation is losing momentum. You will feel like it's time to leave which might follow with a "moment of silence".

    Throw in that false time constraint next time. Try not to hesitate much and let it flow naturally otherwise it will come off as lack of confidence, neediness, suspicious or some other thought in her mind. Being quick, sharp and smooth wuth control will get her adrift from her own indecisiveness and she will often say sure and give you a number.

    When a woman smiles at you and makes eye contact abide by the "3 Second Rule" and approach her immediately even if she instantly after puts on a "Bitch Face"; this is just her response i.e. to put up a "bitch shield". However not all women will do so and might be less challenging than others. She simply might drop her defense but be prepared for her "shit test" or not. Some women lure men in for the attack and challenge while others just make themselves easier to obtain by being more laid back.

    All women are different although they have things in common.

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Hi I'm Tyrone, what's your name? (Smile)

    by the way, you look freaking amazing. (Establish intension)

    give me your number. (Take your phone out and put it in her hand while saying it)
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Hi I'm Tyrone, what's your name? (Smile)

    by the way, you look freaking amazing. (Establish intension)

    give me your number. (Take your phone out and put it in her hand while saying it)
    Does this actually ever work? Even on hot women?

    That seems like a bit much when all she did was smile but if it actually works then who am I to argue. Also, if it does work does she actually need to be smiling in order for her to give you her number.

    Also, I think complimenting her on her looks like that right off that bat is a bit much and seems kind of afc to me. I've always heard never to compliment a woman on her appearance(since they hear that all the time and also it sounds to much like a pick up line in her mind). I might substitute it with "you have a really amazing vibe."

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    Default Re: Women smiling at me in public

    Firstly, This has worked for me everytime I've done it and that's over 100 counts. Hot women especially because men are more intimidated by hot woman so less guys try to pick them up. She doesn't need to smile to use this, but if she smiles and you don't do anything, you look afc.

    telling her she looks amazing isn't to compliment. It's to establish your attraction so she can't friend zone you. Saying you look amazing is a polite way of me saying that I can see myself banging you in the near future..

    There is a science:

    first you break the ice, introduce yourself which is report, do non threatening kino by shaking hand and a light touch, smile so your not a psycho and showing confidence.

    Then as soon as she answers, you roll out the second line causing her to react to your speed making her follow also within that line your establishing your intention or attraction and also complimenting her.

    Then you take out your phone and literally touch her arm with it indicating her to grab it and tell her/not ask but tell her "Give me your number"

    So the introduction (non threatening, ice breaking, shows confidence and Kino escalation)
    mid line (establishes intention, gives you control of social momentum, compliments tend to make girls lost for words)
    number close (guide her physically, tell her not ask, lead, more kino)

    like try it first, then comment with your doubts.

    AFC is not a guy who walks up to a girl and says she looks amazing, AFC is a friend (guy) who says she looks amazing. I don't allow in any of my material or practices for a friendship to be formed between my target and I because I lead, she follows and she knows where it's going when I establish my intentions or attraction, followed with kino and when I ask for her number.

    even after she gives you her number, just Tapp the side of your cheek with two fingers to indicate to her to kiss you on the cheek, she will and even sometimes in the club I'll then point to my lips after and we'll hook up.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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