ok after making a post i wanted to start a thread of the reasons people joined the community and what pick up is to you!
Ok so im sure many of you reading this have gotten advice from me or has read some of my posts. I seem knowledgeable but im not all that.
The reason i joined the community in the first place was to have the women in my life that i wanted there and to date the girls i wanted. I got into this after a breakup and i was tired of girls choosing me. So i decided to learn to be better with women to get the girls i wanted. Yes on the back burner was the idea of sleeping with hot women, but im 21. what 21 year old guy doesnt think of that .
Pick up to me is a lifestyle. Its something we learn to get out of our comfort zones and learn to enjoy ourselves. Yes women is a big factor in pick up. But when you stop being goal oriented, you will be surprised how successful you will be as a PUA. Some people think of it as sleeping with tons of very attractive women, but i see it as getting high quality people into my life that i want there. Thats also why one of the first things i learned and now teach to other guys is inner game. They need to learn about themselves and how to be confident and comfortable no matter where they are and just have fun. So in the end, i dont see pick up as a trade or job, i see it as an experience of a lifetime. After this i know im going to end up on my death bed saying something silly like "Damn, that was one hell of a ride. The people i affected during this life will hopefully pass this on and live life the way they want! Cheers and one to my dead homies :P"(had to throw that in cause i know i would say some silly stupid shit like that!
Lets hear what you guys think!!