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    johnnysteel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Advice on a pick up scenario

    Hi everyone,

    I'm a bit new to game and wouldn't mind some advice from the pros before I go further with this one and screw it up lol. I go to 2 gyms in my area. One of the gyms, I go like once a week to. In the next 2 weeks only, i'll be going to it every day though. At this gym, a new girl started working at the reception and the first time I saw her I chatted her up about random stuff for like half an hour. A couple days back I went back and again saw her and chatted her up for half an hour before my workout. Basically our conversation just took off, lots of laughter, IOIs, I gave a lot of DHVing and we basically talked about our personal lives, work, food, lifestyle, etc. After half an hour, she talked about trying to find another job as a bank teller and I told her maybe I can help getting her foot in the door b/c I know people in the industry, and she mentioned well if I ever see you here again b/c you never come at this gym (kind of said it in a flirty way) so I told her how about I grab your number and i'll text you and let you know what I hear. She said ok no problem, after your workout drop by the desk and i'll give it. I agreed. An hour flies and after my workout I drop by and talked to her for a couple minutes and basically told her I had to go b/c I was already late to work and kind of paused waiting for the number but she then changed her mind and tells me i'm just going to take your email down instead so i'm like alright and I gave my e-mail to her and took off. If I got her number, I was thinking about escalating it on the spot and asking her out on the Friday night but b/c of the backfire, I cancelled those actions.

    I think she's interested, but what I learnt from our conversation was that she was sexually harrassed a lot at her previous job (which she told me about) and she also just quit a bartending and waitress job so she's probably used to getting hit on all the time and auto-rejects on the spot. I think these may be the two reasons why she didn't give her number out...plus i've only met her twice for an hour in total, so maybe trust issues?

    So my questions for you guys are:

    1) Did I mess anything up from the beginning to the end? Should I have done something differentely?
    2) What and how should I continue this? Should I give up on her already or should I reattempt something slowly with her to maybe gain trust, etc.

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    Default Re: Need Advice on a pick up scenario

    1) First, when she agreed to give you her number, you should've gotten it on the spot before she had a chance to even change her mind (She had a whole hour to reconsider, that's WAY too long). You also should TELL her to give you her number instead of you waiting for it. This would've shown that she already approved of giving you her number, thus giving you less resistance. This is how I would've handled it.

    Her: I'm going to give you my e-mail.
    You: (give her a pen and pencil) Great. Here, write it down. As she is writing down her email (when she gets around the '@' TELL her "Oh, and put down your number too." This works most of the time, but if it doesn't, simply say, "I'm only going to call you like 20 times a day until you get a new number or something."
    2) Don't give up, I believe you still have a chance. This is supposed to be when you're on the phone with her, but you can save it and try to number close her and call her to say this, or do it through e-mail. (I prefer calling) "Hey, it was great talking to you the other day. We should get together for a cup of coffee/tea for some conversation. I'm busy tomorrow and thursday, but I should be able to do it Wednesday. Let me know."
    If she makes up an excuse like she has a test or something, tell her "Ditch the test. I'm more fun "
    This shows that you're a fun guy.
    NOTE: I would try to talk to her in the gym again, and try to get her number so you can call her up and TELL her this instead of e-mailing.
    Better yet, get her facebook and IM chat there to get to know her better.

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    johnnysteel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Advice on a pick up scenario

    Great advice, thanks.

    I've been talking to her for the past couple of weeks, quick 5-10 minute conversations though when I enter the gym in the morning. Basically, just quick chit chat personal talk and I've been DHVing her almost on a daily basis. I'm not sure what else I can do with quick conversation first thing in the morning at 6am! I've basically asked her a few personal questions to easily distinguish if she has a BF or not and it looks like she doesn't...for eg I asked who she bought x-mas presents for, where shes spending xmas and xmas eve and what she's doing for new yrs...if a BF was in the picture she would have mentioned it with any of those questions...which she hasn't...

    I basically held off with attempting a number close b/c I wanted to gain some trust with her AND I'm only going to be hitting this particular gym until the end of this week. I know her schedule and the last day I'll be seeing her is tomorrow morning before I start using another gym in the area. So I was going to wait until tomorrow morning and attempt a number close. I was just going to chat her up first thing in the morning again for 5 mins...and then tell her something like...listen I need to get my workout done so I'm not late to work again and as you know I wont be coming to this gym anymore starting next week. I enjoyed talking to you and wouldn't mind getting to know you better and was wondering if I can grab your number, maybe we can chill out, have a coffee or go for drinks some time soon"...or something along though lines. Basically, right now I'm asking your expertise...how can I word this number close properly? Any PUA tactics I can use? Should I do it before or after my workout? I think before b/c shes usually distracted after with other co-workers who come in, clients, etc....I can never talk to her after my workout.

    Any advice for tomorrow would be greatly appreciated..thanks


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