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View Poll Results: do you think this girl im talking about likes me

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  • she likes me

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  • shes playing with me

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  • shes only wants to be friends

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  • she secretly likes me

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  1. #1
    Mr. Nice Guy Guest

    Default friend zone.... really?

    okay i seriously need some help with this one. i have been getting very mixed vibes from a girl that i am super interested in.. we've hooked up once before probally the second night we met but since then we have just been friends...

    but i cant tell if shes truely into me or not she tells people she dosen't but acts like she dose...

    she sleeps in the same bed as me usually (we do cuddle) :) she stands close to me at parties, touches me ALOT, i think she trys to make me jealous sometimes, and we always end up hanging out with lil effort on my side...

    day before she left for vecation she ditched her friends to hang out with me...

    but then she says things to me that just screams friend zone :( like we are the bestest of friends and even said cuddling with you last night i felt like i was cuddling with my brother (the most painful words i ever heard)...

    so to be frank i really have no idea what is going on here i feel like i should just make a move already but really not trying to come out looking like a dumb ass if i dont have to...

    and on top of all this i pretty sure she knows im interested and im sure thats hurting me even worse...

    so its either she really dose like me but wont admit it to anyone...

    she dosent like me and is only interested in being friends...

    but what is really worrying me is that it could be that she knows im interested and uses it to her advantage and plays with me...

    so please give me some feed back, tips, advice, tricks to maybe find out... and let me know what you think... tell me if you need more info

    please and thanks
    Mr. Nice Guy :cool:

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    Default Re: friend zone.... really?

    ok well first thing u do have an opportunity here. since you see her a lot and you guys do cuddle you can turn this all around. you just need to become a sexual entity in her eyes. she needs to be able to think about you sexually. so the best way so she doesnt give u tons of LMR is to make it playful like a game. so lets say for example you guys are cuddling. one of the things i do that drive women crazy is to gently bite them. the best places are usually on the neck or where there neck meets there collar bone. with the biting she will start to get turned on and by using some sexual tension techniques you will be able to start her into thinking about you sexually. beware. if you are a friend at first she will deny it and just try to shut it out. she might become annoyed and start ignoring you or hanging out less. ease off a little if this happens but be persistant. then also dont put much value on her. just have fun with the experience. and if all goes wrong im sure u can salvage this and at least stay friends with her but for now you need to make it so she can think of you sexually.

    think of some things that will help. biting is good, sexual keno, getting her to keno you and stuff like that will help. and then joking around but being slightly sexual with it. the best way to ease into sexual jokes is with "thats what she said comments". i hope this helped.

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    Default Re: friend zone.... really?

    Well Crob lets see if I can live up to expectations.

    OK lets look at the root problems here: 1 you have to much comfort and 2 you have her on a pedestal.

    1. The reason men get friend zoned is cause the woman get to comfortable with them. This can happen fast which is why being a PUA is a challenge. Crob is right you need her to stop seeing you as a friend and start seeing you as a sexual partner. My suggestion is this: make her uncomfortable. I know sounds crazy right? But believe it or not fear is actually an attraction switch. Now im not saying to scare her, or try to make her fearful, or in anyway harm her. I just saying that in order to shift her thinking you need to show a change. This will in return make her uncomfortable and cause her to reevaluate the relationship. This can be done by employing some simple things: Sexual innuendo in conversation, both text and in person, the development of a cocky funny attitude, but mostly by becoming the alpha male you were created to be! Women want a man will take charge, and be in control of the situation. To be confident, and to own up and be a man!

    2. From everything you have said in your post you sound like you are orbiting her pu$$y! STOP THIS NOW! Bottom line is that you think she is perfect and that she would be the perfect woman for you. Reality is that she is not perfect. We all have flaws. Im going to venture to say that you are not talking to any other women right now cause you are holding out hope for her. Also I would venture to say that you buy her dinner, drinks, presents, and do all the things that a “nice guy” would do to win over a woman. Sound familiar? But this doesn’t work. Obviously cause you are here asking for help! Why would she date you? I mean really if you are giving her all these nice things and good feelings and she isn’t giving anything back why would she give that up? SHE WONT!! This is why you have to stop this type of behavior. Im not advocating being a jerk, but a Alpha male! (see how it comes full circle?)

    There are defiantly some sexual things you can do to a woman to turn her on physically, but the reality is that for women sex isn’t physical, its mental! When you can reframe and stimulate her mentally then you will be able to stimulate her physically. Do some reading on this site about the “bad Boy” and alpha male. Also take a look at inner game issues, and female psychology. This site is an amazing resource with tons of free info. If you don’t find it, ask. We will do our best. If you have some spare change laying around take a look at the following programs: Unbreakable (inner game), The Bad Boy Formula (all about how to become the bad boy without being the jerk), and The Vibe (a comprehensive program that will give you a solid frame work to build off of).

    Hope this helps dude. Time to stop being Mr Nice Guy!

    PS. I typed this in a hurry so please forgive the typos if there are any… im sure there are!

  4. #4
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    Default Re: friend zone.... really?

    cool cool i like what im hearing but i would like to point out that im not really a super nice guy despite my user name.

    im actually really comfortable around women and not saying i know everything but im not new to going out and meeting woman. i have been just new to this PUA stuff because i want to improve my game.

    both of you pointed out some really good stuff and yes i do agree i was deffently being a lil bit to nice but im not like buying her crap and going out of my way to please her thats not my style. but she deffently was the chick who i was paying the most attention too but since your guys last advice i took her off of the pedistal.

    Our relationship is at a stand still now and im pretty sure that it might just stay that way but im not stressing out about it since there is many other fish out there. but if you got maybe some more advanced tips to spark something up between us cause i know there was attraction between us.

    and i have been a member of the vibe for awhile now before i even wrote this so if u know of something in there that would be perfect for this situation let me know

    Mr. Nice Guy
    Last edited by Mr. Nice Guy; 01-02-2011 at 03:21 PM.

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    Default Re: friend zone.... really?

    Blame it all on her.

    If she is going to come cuddle then say:

    "OK as long as you promise not to seduce me"
    "You better not try to kiss me"
    "watch those hands"

    Anything you can think of that applies. I really like that first line. What you are doing here is getting her thinking about you in a sexual way with little risk to her rejecting it.

    Next step: Make a move like crob was saying. Kiss or nibble her neck and then.. drumroll please BLAME IT ON HER! lol tell her to stop seducing you and making you do these things. keep escalating. try to go for the kiss

  6. #6
    Mr. Nice Guy Guest

    Default Re: friend zone.... really?

    thats a damn good idea ill give it a try and let you know where it goes that actually just might be what i need to take this furture


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