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    EvanRude Guest

    Question Need some advice on an odd situation

    Alright, let me give the details of this situation so you know what I'm dealing with.

    - I'm a teacher. In a relationship. Have kids.

    - I have a HB coworker (about a 7) that I've worked with for five years. Never really made a move on her, but we flirt off and on. Did try some moves on her in college, got shot down.

    - She knows I have cheated. I let her find out about one incident on purpose to advertise availability and up my status, as the girl I closed was a 9.

    - She's got a boyfriend, fairly serious.

    - For a while she's been distant, but yesterday, she texted me to ask if I was going to the faculty room. I texted back that I had to go there to check my mail, and would be there after a meeting. She said she "might migrate down there," and sure enough, she did. I made a quick exit.

    - Today she texted me just to tell me she wasn't coming to work (no students today), and that she was working from home "fyi".

    She plays it close to the vest, and even though I've known her for a good while I can't always tell what she's up to. I know she's got no problem moving on a guy who is taken, though. Are these IOIs or am I reading too much into it?

    Evanrude

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    Default Re: Need some advice on an odd situation

    you may be friend zoned my dude! but after finals or last day of class before a break or before end of school. ask her out to grab a beer or something in celebration, or even ask her to grab a cup of coffee after work sometime, then go from there! im sure you know the signs a girl gives you when shes intersted, and if you get a hint make a move.

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    Default Re: Need some advice on an odd situation

    What is it you want out of this situation and why. Think deep, be philosophical, be abstract.

    If you can think so much and so deep into her, be sure you are doing the same for yourself, it would be a shame to spend so much time focusing on where someone stands if you aren't even 100% where you stand.

    Worst case scenario...ask your kids for their advice...I know it hits close to home - we are growing now...

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    Default Re: Need some advice on an odd situation

    jbar come one dude, saying im working from home FYI its asking for trouble. i think he may have a chance.

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    Default Re: Need some advice on an odd situation

    pj very true! but take a look at the situation. they are colleagues and have known eachother for a very long time. he was also shut down once in colllege. granted they do flirt on and off as the op said. however, she could be one of those girls that is flirty with almost everyone she talks to and he has yet to make a move on her. the whole im working from home could be her trying to poke fun because he was stuck at school working and she was more than likely sitting home with a nice book, or on fb, doing relatively nothing important. i just feel like ive been in this situation before with girls that ive known for really long periods through work.

    now im not saying it is that way, or that he shouldnt attempt it. i mean hell no guts no glory right?! and i'm in agreement with you about that text. it would more than definitly be taken as a ioi by many. then there is the coffee break room ioi too. so she probably is really into the op. but what he needs to do is isolate her away from school and see how she reacts! if he starts to escallate while having a coffee after school, and she reciprocates. he knows what he has to do but untill then its a shot in the dark!


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