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  1. #1
    Martano Guest

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    I tend not to go for the gold digger type. A. Because I don't want a girl who is only after you for your material wealth. and B. Because I'm a Student! (Not poor but my money is for, clothes, aftershave, travelling and ehh... Partying!!). But I was gaming a girl HB 8 the other day. Made alot of progress and was in the comfort phase whilst escalating with Kino.

    This girl then gave me a sh*t test that I wasn't ready for. She was talking along the lines of how all her boyfriends gave her money and totally spoiled her. I replied with now I treat all my girls well, just ask anyone of them But I'm not really into that, i've got a little sister who tries all of that on me already! (Perhaps I should have said and your just like her!).

    This really flummoxed me and I was unsure of how to keep the interaction progressing and it ultimately ended with a friendly see you later and a kiss on the cheek.

    Have any of you ever had this? I'm still unsure of how to re-frame that type of conversation!! haha!

  2. #2
    Martano Guest

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    Oh yeah I also meant to add... Do you think she sounds like a proper gold digger or just testing me?

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    Raven Guest

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    I don't think it was so much of a test or an indication that she was a gold digger so much as a random comment. I would have said something like "gave you money? So they treated you like a prostitute? That's a shame!" and followed up by mentioning how "some guys are sooo needy." I have always scored massive, immense bonus points with girls by talking about how needy some guys are! They feel they can identify with you, and that you must know how to really treat a woman.

    Money really doesn't matter at all. I'll tell you this - I have less than $1000 to my name, and I have a GF who makes far, far more than I do. She's replacing an "old" car that's newer than mine, and she knows exactly what I make. If a girl excludes all men who make a certain amount of cash, she truly is a gold digger and I wouldn't want to be within 10 feet of her unless I owned a business and she was there spending her current shill's cash. A girl needs to feel secure - that you can take care of her. If you have no money, talking about your ambition, goals, and what you want to do for a career and how you work hard in school will suffice. She can rest in the security of knowing that you will take care of her, because you are doing something with your life and have ambition.

    One more thing, and it doesn't really apply to you Martano - But, if any guy out there really is broke, way in debt, or in a truly hapless financial situation - they need to work their way out of that and be stable before focusing on women. There's a difference between being a poor college student and being an unemployed 35 year old who lives off Ramen noodles. Cheapness is a major turn off. My GF and I were talking about this last night - one of the things that lead to the downfall of her last relationship was when her ex-BF seriously expected to be paid back the $1 he lent her. I know this - even though I have hardly any money, and I need to pay some big bills, I'm setting aside some cash for a great gift for her on Valentine's Day. And I know I'll get something nice from her too =D

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    Martano Guest

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    Right. That makes alot more sense to be honest. Thanks man, I agree, talking passionately about your ambitions in both your career and life in general is a great way to DHV. I'll be keeping this in mind for the future.

    The best bit about being caught off guard is that once you evaluate what's happened and/or recieved some constructive advice (as I have done) then the chances of you being caught out again with that conversational thread is pretty much nil. And so, your game has improved slightly!

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