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  1. #1
    TOCPeanut Guest

    Default In Need of Advice

    hey folks, im 18 and chilling in australia... however, i have a dillema... i met this girl at a maths course in the holidays, i had 6 classes with her in which i was escalating KINO, flirting and got her number on the last day. I spent a day at the beach with a few of my friends and a few of her friends which was amazing. I've never had this kind of connection b4... we have been texting a bit and talking online for a few hrs a day since i met her... the thing is, she has a boyfriend... they had been together 2 years until they broke up but now they are sorta back together but aren't talking much... im getting all the signals from her and its all chill... im just not sure how much longer i can wait until she drops either her bf or drops me i don't wanna get friendzoned... im droppin' flirts here and there and she is catching them and flirting back... u see my problem? my rant is over now, comment if will Thanks

  2. #2
    Martano Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    I personally don't get involved with girls with boyfriends. But it sounds like she is kidding herself on in this relationship. Maybe her boyfriend is guilting or pushing her into staying together. Either way you have to hope (or make it happen, your choice) that they break up soon. Then, just call her with a pre-selected couple of interesting things, or two times for dates where you think she'd be free (but don't label it a date, hanging out or whatever would be fine!!) So say like oh yeah there is such and such im going to on friday afternoon and I've got this planned on wednesday night (or just say you are free at these times). You should come with me, or however you want to frame this.

    Hopefully the boyfriend will get to f*ck though!! haha!

  3. #3
    TOCPeanut Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    thanks for the reply bro... valentines day isn't too far away so i will make use of that.. but who knows, i might get lucky beforehand, 3 weeks is a long time not speaking to ur bf...

  4. #4
    Martano Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    It's a strange length of time. Surely you'd be thinking of breaking up if you've not spoken for 3 weeks. I mean people have realationships that last less than 3 weeks... haha!

  5. #5
    TOCPeanut Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    hehe well yes, i just got a sign that this girl and her bf still talk and she just stood up for him when i dropped some subtle lines... so im not sure if she will drop him anytime soon.. i can only hope...

    ps, with the valentines card/flower, should i make my feelings known to her even if she is still with her bf? im thinking it could either make or break it... this is one hard game, i'll wait for months for this girl, she is amazing

  6. #6
    Martano Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    Personally, I wouldn't. By breaking or trying to break them up you could inadvertedly lower your own value. It also might come across as being AFC. Especially if she still likes her boyfriend. Plus by making it a big deal you probably wouldn't be doing yourself justice....

  7. #7
    TOCPeanut Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    yea, thanks for the help mate... i think im just gonna keep close friends with her until she eventually drops this guy whether it be 1 week or 1 month, i can wait..

  8. #8
    timmy300 Guest

    Default Re: In Need of Advice

    i would like to know how to change a situation in which she's already established that you guys are just friends is there a way to reverse that and take the realationship to a boyfrined type level?


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