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    darkclaw3000 Guest

    Default anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    yes, title is pathetic. i know, but pls, if you been in love before, then you would understand my complicated story.. i'm so lost right now, i just fought and broke up with my gf. this is the 3rd time we fought, and i can see this is the worst one and i dont think i have a chance anymore. i'm so in need of help, that i have to turn to asking you experts in women.. here's my complicated story.. and its gonna be long.. pls help if you're sincere about it......... i got no one else to turn to.....

    i known her for more then 2 yrs. how we met, was.. not actually 'usual'. maybe i was lucky. after 3 days knowing her, i tried to get her to have sex with me, and was successful. fast forward a few months, we developed feelings for each other. and we were sex partners. (during this time after we met, she had a bf). she broke up wit her bf, n we, slowly get more close and finally a proper loving couple.

    sidetrack: i have a band, and shes my bandmate. we did so much stuffs together. you can see we are so close to each other, always seeing each other and nvr get bored. movie Perfect Couple featuring us. -_- once the band was breaking up, she was damn stressed and sad that she was blamed for nothing, and kicked out for nothing, when she put all her energy to the band.

    alot of things happen. we fought once, a big one. was supposedly to end right there, but we had a practice session right after we fought. we are professional musicians, wit the band, we completely put away our feelings. in the room, we can even look at each other and smile and laugh. amazingly, after that practice, we patched back. things went happily.

    fast forward lotsa months. we fought again.this happened juz weeks ago. during that fight. i found out alot of things guys would never accept. during the break up of the band, she went back home wit a friend. during that time, we kept our r/s a secret. so as not to seem 'unprofessional' during practice. she told me, straight in my face. she had sex with him. when she was still with me. and to top it off, she said he did it better. (can u feel the pain now?)

    but still, i love her. i will tell you why later on. also during that recent fight, she told me more. i knew she was a callgirl, she told me, long after we were together, after she trust me that i wouldnt leave her. she give bj's to customers.but she stopped doing it before we met. i was damn shocked. but i accepted it. i want to forget her past, and move on and continue loving her. and i found out also, while i was working, she went to meet another guy, and kissed him. it was damn hurtful i swear.

    last few weeks, she want to enrol a course in school. she had no money. her parents dont help her anymore. she cant get a job easily. she knew im struggling myself, and she doesnt want me to suffer. knowing that i can't help her, and knowing i will be super disappointed and sad, she resort to give bj's again to earn a quick buck, to pay for her school. all because she dont wanna see me without money, helpin her pay. how do i not love her more even though im so hurt? she did all those things juz not to see me suffer.

    y do i love her so much? she had very very bad experience with her past bf, i really think she is traumatized. she told me last time she was very active, outspoken, energetic, positive. now shes quiet, always stressed, depressed, doesnt see point in anyting in life. she rarely talk to her parents. ive been around her family. its bad. i feel, and need, to help her. i love her so much. i dont want her to resort to being a callgirl again. i dont want her to degrade herself like that. i will feel guilty to the end of days if i dont help her. i know her problems and situations, and feelings and traumas. i just NEED to help her......

    u will tell me, to not be a wuss, dont cry, move on, n all, but the confusing part is this.. my work, my life, goals, depends on her too. i HAVE to see her. we play in pubs, i need her. i will gladly follow all the rules on how to get ur gf back. dont contact, and stuffs.. but this is different.

    how do i do this?? i will get any PUA programs out there and learn all there is to get her to go crazy over me. i know, im pathetic. ive stuck myself with her. but, shes like the only diamond i ever found in my life... pls dont tell me to find another girl....

    oh god someone out there pls help..............

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    I just skimmed it quickly.. but 1itis right??

    Dont seem needy man! never..

    PUA programs tells you to go out and basicly be with 10 women.. (K- or F-close) and if you still have this girl on ya mind she is worth going for

    uhm, and let her work out her own problems, you think you have to help her, but NO! she will ask you if she needs help and really trust you :P

    I had this to.. she is really the only fish in the sea right.. I lost (yes L O S T) 3 years of my lovelife to a 1itis.. dont do the same..
    You'll be alright man

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    just read some more.. Farking bitch! leave her alone for year or so.. and then text her.. she is not worth the drama.. If you are a musician you can get women easy..

    Maybe you just want what you cant get?? just a thought

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    thx ziegler for reading....

    yes... 1-itis....... thats whats happening.. but dude... i really don't know. about moving on. its difficult in my situation. i donno how to explain. the repercussions is a lot..... even if i do move on.. and date other girls and stuffs, she still be in the back of my mind. i cannot see her do degrading stuffs like giving bjs to customers for easy money. she told me she hates it. she hates herself for doing it.. argh.. my conscience will kill me bro..

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    Everyone has that one girlfriend where we learn the hardest lesson.

    Be glad you had the opportunity, lots of people who turn to this hobby don't.

    Move on brotha
    Remember my name lady, you'll be screaming it later.

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    yeah.. to many, she seems a total bitch. i even called her a slut coz i was damn mad at her. mad coz she keep saying she dont wanna do this, do that, no point in life and stuffs. dun wanna work hard, always want the easy way out. it juz anger me so damn much. but i found out its all due to her ex bf who traumatized her so bad.

    her reason for having sex behind me and kissing another guy, was she being stressed and down, n juz need to forget about the pain. now i cant help wondering what shes doing behind me while i work or away from her. giving bjs for money or meet some new guy.

    and the thing is, her reason saying shes juz lost, and confused, is very real. that i am absolutely sure.

    it just sucks to be me rite now

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    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    If she needs your help she will ask you.. stop trying dude and move on.. you learned a lesson here you cant help people who dont wanna be helped :/

    I really dont know what I want you to do.. on 1 side MOVE THE FARK ON!! and on the other, 1itis.. try leaving her alone and if she comes back tell her that you dont want anything to do with her unless she figures her shit out..

    I did this, and lost a good girlfriend of mine but my life is better of this way so it is all good :P

    let her go man, you are better of that way

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    darkclaw3000 Guest

    Default Re: anyone, pls, i need help badly, im so confused..

    right after the day we fought, something happened. i thought that night it was totally over. i assumed. but next morning she was ok. she was just tired and stressed. and we got back together.. we kissed a damn good kiss.. of happiness and apology...

    but i did what all you said that night. forgetting, moving on, trying out PUA stuffs... damn the next morning was shocking. now we're together.. for now...

    i wonder when will be our next fight.. that one, i will seriously forget it.....

    i can go crazy over this.

    thx to all that replied and helped. pua has always been my interest. but i never really get to do that lifestyle book by neil strauss.. seems kinda hard..

    any recommendations of other top PUA products? Pandora's Box seems very good


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