After only one date and a ton of texting and even talking on phone, we plan for a Sunday and she text me saturday night that she's in my neighborhood. Dinner date is one a day earlier than planned. She had a long day and faded fast but we still stayed out relatively late considering we started in the early evening. She headed home in cab and we text the whole way time before she gets in. Next day we talk on phone and I tell her my plans including meeting her later as originally planned. She said "unless you come pick me up... I've done so much traveling this weekend". I agreed to pick her up after some "thinking about it" and it's on. I get her... we go to my place and hang out... long story short... K-close fail... she likes the way we are... gets emotional about a recent heart break and wants things to stay how they are.
THEN.. next day we're texting and she apologizes if she offended me... and dances between "you've become a close friend" and "sometimes you have to decide whether you jump into bed or give it time to cultivate" sending a weird mixed signal and we still are making plans to hang out.
Next day... I'm silent... get a text from her in the evening checking in. Short convo before she goes to bed.. following day we're texting again and I ask her if something else was wrong... she says she's still worried because "the guy I've been seeing these past few months and I are getting more serious and I am hoping that our friendship can still stay in tact and continue on the path we've been creating. As you know I am open to those that have shown me their worth and have let you in. In the past when I have done that with other male friends and it didn't head into a romantic arena they totally bailed".
Sounds like she wants me around, as a friend and not to bail on her.