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Thread: What to do

  1. #1
    Derek1414 Guest

    Default What to do

    I have this girl that I met, we have been texting and emailing and hanging out for a while. Everything was going great I was teasing her and using keno on her, just being very playful.

    So one night I ask her out and she says that since she just got out of a long relationship she is not looking for someone. She want to be friends.

    So I back off for a week, then I send her a text asking how she is doing and she replies "Hey you where have you been" So the texting goes great. I use the whole Bank robber role playing, she loves this and it seems to be our on going joke to each other.

    Everytime I ask he to do something with other friends she says yes, and when we go out with friends she is all into me, But when I ask her to do something alone she always says " Sure but I just have to do something first" Well then we never end up hanging out.

    So latley I have been trying to freeze her out alittle. But I don't know if I am doing it right. I used to return her emails and texts as soon as I got them.

    So this is how I have been handling it over the past week. On Saturday she texted me to come by cause she wanted to get some pictures I had. I did not reply to her text, she sent two more that day and I did not reply

    The next day I sent her a message on Facebook asking how her weekend was. Then making a mistake I know, I complemented her new facebook photo saying how great she looked. I got no reply.

    The next day I sent her another message telling her that I couldn't help her with a project that she wanted because I had other plans.
    She messages me within a half hour and is extremely nice to me.

    Then that night I get two more messages from her asking me some questions about a game we had been playing a few weeks earlier. That was Monday night.

    So I wanted to freeze her a little while but not to long. So I wait until Thursday and reply to her message. I follow that with a question about her computer which she was having trouble with.

    So I am going to wait for her to respond. Now if she responds tonight Which is Friday, how long should I wait to respond. I was thinking maybe Tuesday. And bringing up more role playing and playful texts.

    In this time I have gone out on a date with another girl and I am pretty sure she know this.

    Any advice would be great

  2. #2
    Derek1414 Guest

    Default Re: What to do

    I sat down and though about it and I am done with her. She is messed up and just wants the attention....So she is getting a permanent freeze out.....Gonna go out this week end and try some of this stuff out and see how I do.....

    I am new to this so any advice would be helpful....

    Right now the only thing I am going to be thinking about is to get out there...cause I can't fail.....learning is not failing!!!

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    Default Re: What to do

    just have fun and be confident, the rest falls in place

  4. #4
    fantasy_ckr Guest

    Default Re: What to do

    You are new to this. Here is some insight that will help.

    So latley I have been trying to freeze her out alittle. But I don't know if I am doing it right. I used to return her emails and texts as soon as I got them.

    So this is how I have been handling it over the past week. On Saturday she texted me to come by cause she wanted to get some pictures I had. I did not reply to her text, she sent two more that day and I did not reply

    Reread the above and you probably would give a friend the same advice I am giving you if this were his situation,

    First, you must control the situation from the first moment you open. Do not go "off script" no matter how much you are tempted. This is especially important if you are new. Otherwise, you will never prove to yourself you have the confidence in skills to close.

    If you do not have someone to coach and guide you, find someone, use this blog and continue to review and learn as much as you can to improve your skills.

    You are doing great and I look foward to hearing about your journey!

    Go Get'm

  5. #5
    GoDat55 Guest

    Default Re: What to do

    be confident by relaxing.

  6. #6
    GoDat55 Guest

    Default Re: What to do

    arr double again


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