I have this girl that I met, we have been texting and emailing and hanging out for a while. Everything was going great I was teasing her and using keno on her, just being very playful.
So one night I ask her out and she says that since she just got out of a long relationship she is not looking for someone. She want to be friends.
So I back off for a week, then I send her a text asking how she is doing and she replies "Hey you where have you been" So the texting goes great. I use the whole Bank robber role playing, she loves this and it seems to be our on going joke to each other.
Everytime I ask he to do something with other friends she says yes, and when we go out with friends she is all into me, But when I ask her to do something alone she always says " Sure but I just have to do something first" Well then we never end up hanging out.
So latley I have been trying to freeze her out alittle. But I don't know if I am doing it right. I used to return her emails and texts as soon as I got them.
So this is how I have been handling it over the past week. On Saturday she texted me to come by cause she wanted to get some pictures I had. I did not reply to her text, she sent two more that day and I did not reply
The next day I sent her a message on Facebook asking how her weekend was. Then making a mistake I know, I complemented her new facebook photo saying how great she looked. I got no reply.
The next day I sent her another message telling her that I couldn't help her with a project that she wanted because I had other plans.
She messages me within a half hour and is extremely nice to me.
Then that night I get two more messages from her asking me some questions about a game we had been playing a few weeks earlier. That was Monday night.
So I wanted to freeze her a little while but not to long. So I wait until Thursday and reply to her message. I follow that with a question about her computer which she was having trouble with.
So I am going to wait for her to respond. Now if she responds tonight Which is Friday, how long should I wait to respond. I was thinking maybe Tuesday. And bringing up more role playing and playful texts.
In this time I have gone out on a date with another girl and I am pretty sure she know this.
Any advice would be great