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    2much is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: thoughts, advice?

    can i get some feedback guys? She's coming out dancing with me and my friends again this saturday for my friend's bday party. I want some advice on how to proceed this time and actually get some kind of response from her.

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    Default Re: thoughts, advice?

    Wow, you really have gotten yourself into a pickle haven't you? You know what i'd put this down to? Attraction. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you're not attractive to her, what i'm saying is she's not attracted to you! You need to start over. FULLY!

    Let me ask you this, have you negged this girl? Have you used Push-Pull? Have you tried playing games with her to build trust and Kino escalation? Here's a tip, whenever I play 5 lies, I always get the girl to let me hold both her hands as if it's a part of the game! She gets comfortable with me touching her this way. The problem is, you're paying too much attention to her.When she comes out with you this weekend, leave her for a bit. Talk to some girl friends with her around. I personally like one on one negs as well, playful and maybe you can have a bit of banter with her.

    Only when you've escalated Kino to the right amount should you be doing much on the dancefloor. I can tell you don't just want to lay this girl so you're going to have to lay the proper foundations. Once you take her out and show her she isn't the centre of your universe she'll be left wondering why.

    You're the end goal here, not her. You have to be the prize she wants to have not the other way around.

    But I'm serious when I say this one will need serious ground work. Right now she thinks you want her which is putting up her defences. Neg her for the love of god!

  3. #13
    2much is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: thoughts, advice?

    Dammit, she LJBF-ed me. I'm actually leaving the country for a 2 year work term in a week's time. Really liked this girl and so instead of playing it cool and not caring, i tried too hard because I guess I felt I had a limited time to get her And it looks like she picked up on that and LJBF-ed me.

    A couple days ago i found myself in a hole. I was sick of one-itis and of her running through my head all the time. So i did what i talked about earlier. I deleted her from my life (all i really had to do to accomplish that was delete her from facebook). She texted me a few hours later, realizing what i had done.

    I acted like an AFC and told her that i was sick of thinking about her, and as i was moving away, i didnt see the point in continuing to like her while she only saw me as a friend. So i told her i was just going to pretend that i had never met her. She fought back really hard, pages of text, kept saying how much she liked/wanted me as a friend and how she didnt want to have a negative outcome, but rather a positive one. Next thing i know she convinces me to forget all this ever happened and that we should go back to being the "friends" we were before. She's convinced I'll get over her. Damn hearing her talk down to me like that made me feel like a baby and major AFC.

    I dont get why she cares so much, we barely know each other outside of facebook. If i were her and saw I had been deleted, i wouldnt have cared. And i dont know if I should bother or what i should do as far as trying to be "just friends" with her. I have enough friends, female and male. And like i said, i'm leaving the country for two years so how close can this girl and i possibly become anyways. I need to move on to other women but i feel like having this girl in my life is going to be a thorn in my side and a major distraction. I just want to learn from this huge mistake that pretty much was a long time coming ever since my first post in Feb. But i'm having major doubts over how i can move forward with her still in my life.
    Last edited by 2much; 05-19-2011 at 11:25 PM.

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    Kingdom is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: thoughts, advice?

    Just you wait. These next two years are going to be a blessing, if not for a few reasons. 1. Girls who you had previously given up on will become interested in you. 2. Girls will become much easier to lay because you're going away and doing something with your life. 3. You're going away! It's time to start fresh! Do you know how many girls from back home are interested in me now because i'm travelling? Considering I had 3 on the go just before I left (using the fact that I was going away!) this number has gone up to 9. Women want what they can't have, just the same as guys. Before I left I changed my strategy for approaching women. Now I don't know if you're going to go with this but here's something for you to think about. You're going away for two years, for the next week nothing that you do matters! You can approach anyone, sleep with any woman and not give a crap! Because as of next week, you're outta there! It's what I like to call the "Who Cares - I'm leaving!" booster! You have no responsibility towards anyone! If you don't mind me asking, where in the world are you off to for two years?

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    2much is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: thoughts, advice?

    I'm 23 and i've only ever really liked two girls. This one, and another one 7 years back. That girl i also messed up with in a similar fashion. Then again i was only 16. She had a bf at the time and i let her know i liked her too soon, just like i did with this girl. I stayed in touch with her for FOUR years thinking it would get better but it never did. And one day i just deleted her number and deleted her from fb. Sure enough, a few months later i had pretty much stopped thinking about her or at least stopped thinking about her in unhealthy ways. Thats why i deleted this girl, because i know that technique works in terms of forgetting someone.

    Besides these two girls, i've never had a problem. Because i've never cared. I care so little that I never even approach women. I'm a good looking guy so they approach me, and i basically decide if i want them or not. I've had A LOT of great experiences. So i've always had that mindset of not giving a crap, because for the most part i truly never did.

    Its just that as everyone here knows, if you like a girl, you have to pretend you dont. And thats what i'm having trouble with. I hate having to act like i dont care, when in reality she's all i'm thinking about. I'm just glad i'm not one of those guys that falls for a girl every other week.
    Last edited by 2much; 05-20-2011 at 10:14 AM.


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