Met this girl 3 months ago at a club, danced with her a little and then parted ways. Added her on facebook asking if i could see her again, to which she said yes. After three weeks of trying to set something up (her parents were in town one week, she was out of town visiting fam another week, etc) we finally met up on a weeknight for a one hour coffee date. good conversation, I walked her home after and we hugged goodnight. I should mention here that we live in apartment buildings that are a 3 minute walk from each other.
Her bday was that weekend at some club and she invited me and told me to bring friends. None of my friends were available and i didn't feel like going by myself when she would be busy with her friends anyways, so i declined.
I told her i would make it up to her by taking her out for dinner, but again she went out of town visiting fam, she got the flu for a week, etc. Legit excuses, but just frustrating, then in mid december we both went out of town for vacation. I tried to set something up in the days before we left because otherwise it would be a month before we came back. We set something up but she called that day and said she had to cancel, giving a really really weak excuse, but a legit one non-the less. I got bold and asked her straight up if she wanted to see me again. It seemed this took her aback and she said she did, but she wasnt looking for a commitment (she also mentioned that she needs time to get to know someone before she can commit). I guess she thought i was trying to get her to commit (no idea where that came from), so i told her i wasn't, i was just looking to get to know her better and i didnt see how that was possible when we were only seeing each other once a month. We agreed to try harder in the new year and wished each other happy holidays. We kept in touch through facebook msg while we were away, just small talk here and there.
Now that we're both back in town its the same thing, trying to set something up and failing. What is really bugging me and the reason i have posted (everything above is just filler) is i want to know if i'm being unreasonable by thinking she's playing games. She lives 5 minutes away and i know for a fact we could see each other any night we wanted (most nights she's just at home on fb chat anyways). Also its always me that initiated text, fb chat, fb msg convos (usually i contact her once every 3-4 days). I dont know if maybe she's not a text person, but she usually responds to them 12-24 hours later.
Whats going on?