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    Default wondering if she likes me more than a friend

    I'm new to PUA and need some advice
    So i have recently started hanging out with a girl that i was introduced to by a mutual friend - and we have gone out a few times with her and I . not a date necessarily, but it was just us two. She is 20 and im 23 - she texts things to me like have a good night and i want to see you tomorrow - but when we hang out it seems like all she talks about is the last bf who broke her heart, and how she cant find the "basics" in a guy around here (she moved to CO like a year ago)
    she does flirt (i think) with me, touches my arm every so often, mocks me - does the head tilt thing when i look at her.
    What do i do?? i could totally see myself getting with this chick, but the fact that she talks about her ex and other "non-existant" guys throws me for a loop. she texts me almost every day and wants to hang out and i have no clue what to do from here - some help from PUA would be greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: wondering if she likes me more than a friend

    she is dragging you to the "girlfriend" zone pretty soon she's gonna ask you to go shopping with her, you dont want that unless she wants your opinion when she tries out lingerie at Victoria secret, flirt back, show your sexual side just a little bit, it seems like shes controling you since she is the one setting up the dates..flip the script invite her some where fun
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    Default Re: wondering if she likes me more than a friend

    Bro, I have been in your place many times before! Then I started reading books on picking up, female psychology and that. There is a good possibility that she is trying put you into the friends zone (the worst place for a guy to be in). But one thing is obvious that she likes you! Don't just spoil you chances! You still can get her. I would suggest that you stop being a Women's Therapist. Differentiate yourself from her friends. May be the other PUAs can help. Good luck

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    Default Re: wondering if she likes me more than a friend

    Here is exactly what you do: Say "You're awesome. Your my type of girl, but it's great that I'm not attracted to you in any way shape or form, or else we couldn't be as good of friends as my gut tells me we'll be." YOU put HER in the friend zone.

    Stop texting her back as frequently as she texts you. Ignore every other or every third question she asks you. This will artificially raise her investment in you in the short term. Even give her a day or two without a response, and when she starts to get all worried or ask where you've been, resume the conversation (without resolving her worry) with the proposal of cool event or impending visit to a cool place (when you think the odds are good she could join you), as if nothing had happened. Suggest she join you. Don't ask.

    The next time she mentions her ex boyfriend, say "these conversations about your ex boyfriend are a real drag." Say it with the mindset that ANYONE would feel the same feeling if they were having to listen to her, and not because it makes you jealous or makes you feel as if your chances with her have been lowered. Then continue, "And because I love you, babe, (with a fatherly overtone), I think you should put it past you, move on. Now lets go have fun." Then show her an incredible time. Plan it out in advance if you have to, but pretend its spontaneous.

    While you're out. Go open a girl hotter than her, in front of her.


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