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    Exclamation Need your advice!!!

    Hi whats up PUAs! I'm a newbie here. I need your opinion on something! I've had this friend for a really long time. She is really nice, caring, lovely!!! But one thing I really hate about her is that she is over-protective sometimes! Like whenever I find a new target n start my game , she will do something really weird! She will either takes me away from the target or simply act like a girlfriend! She will firmly hold my hands and drag me away from the target as soon as she finds the target showing IOIs!! I mean.. c'mon.. what's wrong with her! She already has a boyfriend. So she is not supposed to be jealous about anything! Right?? Most of my targets seem to notice her strange over-protectiveness! Does this have a negative effect on my game?! How am I supposed to deal with it??!!

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    i only have so much experiance, but i will try to help you.

    i have noticed, that even girls who dont activly have a crush on you,, will still get jelious when a cute girl who may like you is around.

    i think having her get jelious and fight for your attention will display high value to the other girl


    find a way to ingore her, when she trys to drag you away. tell her you want to go,, what ever.... she will most likley tag along.

    her acting like your girlfriend, and holding your hand, shuld be a major display of high value.... i dont think it will come off wrong, if you flirt with your target, even as your friend is holding your hand to either girls.... as long as you play it smooth.... after she all, shes just a friend... right?

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    Thanks for the help bro. Much appreciated! =)

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    recruit your friend (the jealous one with the boyfriend) to HELP you get the girl you're after BEFORE you approach the girl.

    "Hey, that girl is totally cute. I'm going to go talk to her. Come up to me and hang all over me like you want attention. I'll acknowledge you and be completely friendly, but non-reactive, and tell you that I'll be right over, but first I'm going to finish this conversation."

    Use it to your advantage. But don't let her talk much or drag you away. If she tries, politely, lovingly hug her and tell her she's awesome, and that "you'll be with her in a minute," as if to service her, and then send her along her way.

    If she does manage to pull you away, be sure to look at the girl you're talking to as if you're in demand. Smile and shrug your shoulders as if to say, "hey, whattya gonna do? I'm hot property." And then be sure to give yourself proximity to the girl later, as if not to notice her, so she has the opportunity to re-open you.

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    wow! thats awesome man!!! Thanx a lot

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    Honestly in my opinion u should take in account the sub communication level and also the HB target status.

    On superficial level this friend acts in your favor, anyway acting weird over and over maybe the sub-communication is that u are along with a non-permissible behavior of you female friend.

    If u are hitting high status target keep in mind that they may have more experience and perception that u could imagine.

    I once tried to trigger a girl using one of my hot female friend… well the girl just ignored that and act like my friend was not present. I think the girl had read from sub-communication (they are just friends and I don’t even care about his this girl).

    Take Care

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    Thanks a lot man. I understand ur point! Since I'm a newbie I'm not targeting 9s or 10s right at the moment! They are way too experienced! Is that okay to recruit my friend, if I target a 7 or a 8? What wud u suggest? thnx once again

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    I think your friend is benefiting u, but also pulling you away is destroying your “momentum”…
    So how to turn this? You should handle this and when you friend comes beginning hard escalation right away on the target (by the way she will be dazed w situation and u could take advantage) so when your friend pull u away is a Takeway with high note…

    Dude, this is not my game now, But I hope it helps u…

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    VisiniR has your best interest in mind, I'm sure, but in my humble opinion, a few things could use clarification.

    Quote Originally Posted by VisiniR View Post
    I think your friend is benefiting u, but also pulling you away is destroying your “momentum”…
    Your friend is NOT benefiting you. She's either hurting you and doesn't know it, OR she is jealous and has a subconscious attraction to you, and she dampens your momentum as a result. She is essentially AGOGing you. And you need to out ALPHA her. You'll have to experiment with this situation, but you can use it to your advantage.

    VisiniR is right about factoring the HB status of each. For instance, if your friend is hotter than your target, turn and give her your full attention. Greet her like you haven't seen her in ages, hug, introduce, and send her along quickly. Tell her you'll be over to spend time in a minute. If she's lower status than the target, you need to play it like she's your little sister, and that you are her protector. Your sub-communication should be that your level of woman is much higher than her, but that you respect and befriend all women.

    Also, don't assume different women are more equipped, capable, and experienced than you. Remember that YOUR rating of their status is just YOUR rating. It is no measure of a their social intelligence. The only thing the hottest girls are experienced at is deflecting advances, but in reality they are likely to be just as insecure and awkward as you perceive yourself.

    Embrace ALL HBs, no matter the level. The less you are worried about maintaining high standards, and the less you care about how you'll be perceived for talking to 2s, 3s, 4s, 5s, and 6s, then the less pressure you'll put on yourself when you're talking to 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s.

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    Default Re: Need your advice!!!

    Thanks for the advice bro! Much appreciated.


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