So I need some input on a situation that is quickly arising. I work for a small, mom and pop run tax business. They have an HB daughter and i've been engaging in office flirting with her. She was receptive, but I never really expected it to go anywhere because she has a boyfriend that has been around for years. I'm taking her out on a date this saturday. Any pointers on how I can be open with her and tell her I don't want to date, and i'm only looking to be bennies? I also have my job to consider, so that's why I don't want to lead her on.