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    Manix is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Strippers, how much is too much?

    So this is what has happen. For the last 3 nites I've been in a new town where I know nobody! The first night I went out and meet some guys who took me to the strippers. Anyway, I got talking to a stripper and she seemed to really like talking to me (not just, bull shit, I want to make money off you kind of talking, I now know what her real name is, what she is doing this year, where she grew up etc, and she was talking to me and ignoring other guys even though I said she should get out there and try and make some money, another tip from the PUA forums),
    That night, I paid for 2 dances, one I just talked.
    Last night I went back and stayed for about 2 hours and talked and didn't get a dance from anybody.
    Tonight I went back, talked for about an hour and paid her for a dance, saying that "I felt bad about talking her away from her customers". She insisted I stay for another drink (I didn't buy her one), after which she gave me a good hug, and said that we might bump into each other in another town where I'm going.
    The question is this, I have the opportunity to go back next week, after saying our final fairwells and visit her again. Would that work? Basically, I after a number close, but don't want to look like a stalker.

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    Default Re: Strippers, how much is too much?

    I'll admit, as of now, I'm a total beginner with strippers. But you can bet I'm on a path. :-) So take this with a grain of salt.

    Let's step outside the environment, the logistics, and "the professions," here for a minute. It sounds like a developing case of one-itis. I don't mean the "I'm infatuated with this cool chick, and I want to figure her out" kind of one-itis. I mean the stripper/customer "I think I have a chance" with her one-itis.

    I'm not saying you don't have a chance, but it sounds like you've danced around the line a bit, and it might be just as difficult for you to close her as it will be for her to pull you back out of "customer zone." Drop her from your thoughts. Go to a different strip bar and game the girls there.

    IF you go back next week, do it because your new crew of friends is going. Actively disengage from anything that resembles the stripper hustle. Be assured that you're not there for her physical attention, and invoke the standard stripper game:

    * No dances.
    * BE untouchable. dismiss physical contact as if it's a special privilege.
    * You're there for your friends and not the entertainment
    * Talk to the girls as if you're in a club, they're single, and they're hitting on you.
    * Tell "her" you think she's cool, but that you don't think of her "that way." Leave
    what you mean by "that way" to question (i.e. send mixed signals as to whether
    you mean as a friend, stripper, or romantic interested).
    * Suggest the places you like to go that are cool, but that you don't go there with
    just anyone. Get her to qualify herself as cool enough to meet that expectation.

    If you're able to build enough attraction, she might open up doors or suggest a get together elsewhere outside the club. Maybe even an after party or something, where you can number close THERE.

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    Manix is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Strippers, how much is too much?

    Thanks for the reply. Yeah, thats some really good suggestions. I especially like the "that way" suggestion.
    Guess I've got alot to think about before next weekend, and alot to decided.
    If I go back, I'll let you guys know.


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