Hey guys! I'm so distressed right now! Just been rejected by a girl I truly loved. I donít know how to start it off!
On the first day of university I had a crush on a girl! As we started to know each other, we became very good friends n I gradually started to fall in love with her. I used to be there for her whenever she needed me! She could share almost anything with me. I, now, realize thatís the biggest mistake a guy could ever make! Cuz I gradually became a 'women therapist' to her. She started liking me as a friend! I got trapped in the ĎFriends Zone!í On top of that, it was becoming almost impossible for me to ask her out! Even though sometimes I could realize that she knew everything! I was too scared to ask out! Cuz I never wanted to lose her.
Now itís been like three freaking years! Today I told her that I felt something more than just friendship about her. She calmly said that she knew it before. A guy friend of ours already told her about it. But she was shocked. She could not think of anything between us, as she liked me as a friend. She considered me as one of her best friends. But could never picture us together! I told her that I could sacrifice anything for her. I could be anything she wanted me to be. But she said there could be nothing between us except friendship. She would never want to lose a friend like me though. She was repeatedly making sure that this wouldnít affect our friendship. She asked me to be as normal as before! But I didnít know what to say! I didnít promise anything. Just said, ďItís alright. It just happened! N it shouldnít affect our friendshipĒ But, deep down inside, I was dying! I donít think Iíll be able to get over it, at least not anytime soon. I love her like crazy.
Should I continue being her friend (itís been really uncomfortable for me) or I should simply stop seeing her.