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    geo557 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    shes been my bestfriend for almost 4 years, i have told her before how i felt and she claimed that she loved everything about me except one thing was missing.. and that was the INLOVE part.. the romantic attraction. we have been there for each other all time and lately we got closer then ever.. had phonecalls once every day, video chat on certain nights and txt all day... i cracked last night and told her how i felt once again and she told me that she still dosnt know and dosnt want to take a chance to mess up our friendship.. and that we should just leave it up for the future and to see if it happens on its own and that its in Gods hands. My heart aches.. what do i do?

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    geo557 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    please guys reply and give me some advice i really need it /: never felt like this before.

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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    Attraction isn't a choice. If you like her you need to stop talking to her for a while, and then start over. But this time the goal should be building attraction. Look up some David DeAngelo and read some of his stuff. All I can say is you cant convince someone to have attraction for you through logic.
    Last edited by Foxy; 03-06-2011 at 08:52 PM.

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    geo557 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    can i do this this with out dropping her and stop talking to her? can i just start doing this starting lets say tommmorow and who is that guy how will that help me?

    BTW i thankk you soo much for repling .. means alot.

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    geo557 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    i have 23 views but only one guy gave advice /: common guys anything over here will help, even if you want to pitch in your own experiences or stories

    And how can i build up attraction

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    Foxy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    You have to at least "freeze her out" for a little while. I think one of your problems is you are always there for her. Get out meet some new girls, be busy when she calls and stuff. Show her you have a life other than her.

    David D is just one PUA that helped me out a lot. There are certainly many more great PUAs out there and on this forum that can help you out. If you go watch some of his youtube videos I think you could find it very beneficial to your situation.

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    geo557 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    Yeah I see where your coming from , because i give her all my time .. and i will most deff look into his videos,

    Once again greatly appreciated my friend.

    Thank you.

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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    Don't tell her you love her make her feel like she is already yours you have the best opportunity of any guys she is talking too just don't jump straight into it break the ice slowly or it will back fire

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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    I think you are STUCK in the friend zone, if it's been 4 years you are going to have to ignore her to get a chance to sleep with her and start something.

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    Default Re: TOLD MY BESTFRIEND HOW I FEEL!!!

    Hey mate you will have to just ignore her for sometime because if you want her to get in love with you ...you have to stay away from her!As we all know love happens when they are away from eachother, and as the quote says "After you lose something it's 10 times more valuable then before" ! You just have to stay away from her a bit or move one(this is pretty hard for you from what i see)!


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