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    Thumbs up How to date a busy girl/classmate

    So I live in a college town and one night at the bar this HB10 comes up to me out of no where and says she is in my class. I run some game on her, build some basic attraction. The next day in class I basically ignore her. This weekend at the bar she came up to me again and I played some games with her and her friend. Things went pretty good. Anyways, we were just assigned to be in the same group for class so I called her and we worked on it today for a while. We talked about random stuff most of the time and got nothing done but I think it went well. Here is my questsions...

    1. This girl is in a hard major so does a lot of school work during the week, and on the weekends she works at the bar (she was working when she kept coming up to me). What do yall think is the best way to pursue her, with such a busy schedule?

    2. And what should I do to let her know that I want to be more than just "class partners"?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    You need to show her that you can handle a girl with a busy life schedule, and that you wont be to over clingy. Do this by not giving her to much attention although when she is free she should come after you simply by you playing the game right and saying the right things at the right time. You seem experienced to me and i know you can handle that part well.

    For your second question you need to set plans with her out of school/work , Im sure spring break is coming up very soon so get close with her and set some plans for that upcoming vacation.

    Wish you best luck

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    That makes me feel better, I haven't been giving her too much attention. The thing...is we are going on Spring break next week, since I just met her she is going to a different locale than me. Because of this I am trying to speed things up and make things happen before we leave.

    Any good date ideas to do with her during the week?

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    She sounds busy, yes, but she sounds potentially interested. Don't freak her out be telling her you want to be more than friends, just keep building attraction / escalating every time you run into her. Don't ignore her in class. But don't ask her to sit by you. Just go sit by her or TELL her to sit by you.

    Get a buddy, plan a low-key night at a bar with her and a friend of hers, ASAP. And F\/CK the sh!t out of her that night. Who cares what she does when she's on Spring Break. You're playing her, and you're not in a relationship. Just don't think about it. Pick up where you left off after the break.

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    @geo557

    i'm in a similar situation. what do you mean by saying things at the right time and getting her to come to you when she's free? is there something special to do or just running game will bring that result?

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    @ jh1

    With girls that you have just met and dont know you to well , they dont see you as anything special in there eyes just yet, so there for you need to make your self special to them, show them that your a keeper and once that is done your pretty much set. you dont have to do as much work.

    Now when i said say the right things at the right time im talking about lets say you meet this girl, and shes txting you pretty much the whole day for the next couple of days right, well your going to get used to her giving you her attention and after a short period of time the txts are usually meaningless and just basic convo type to get to konw each other better. Now heres the key, you just met her you want to keep that mystery to yourself, so lets just say she only txted you twice per day and not to start convos but yet to throw a small remark at you this way you wont forget about her through out the week and from her small pointless txts it will keep that mystery which means you want to know more. So now basically do that vice versa.
    I like to call these txts "memory bubbles" because its a small pointless txt that just might put a small smirk on her face and keep you in mind. that usually leaves her wanting more. So there for when ever she has free time she will try to talk to you.

    Its all experince you might not be able to get it right off the bat but always remmber , some girls are just the practice.. as messed up as that sounds but if you tell yourself that you wont have high expectations and yet you get something out of it each time.

    best of wishs,

    *~Geo~*

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    I think I am going to invite her to the gym with me Wednesday since we have seen each other there before. Then Thursday we'll go to the bars.

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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    I go to the gym to workout, not for a date. It is sweet to go to the gym together, but counterproductive for both your workout and relationship.

    If you feel you must go to the gym together, it should be a spur of the moment event; not a planned date.

    Gym Good:
    -Good conversational oportunities with some workouts
    -Some women wear hot outfits
    -Muscles flexing
    -Be seen showing up and arriving together (also works to your advantage in her head)

    Gym Bad:
    -You will probably be doing different workouts
    -Almost all women will refuse to go out with a guy they like after they get all nastified, unless they know them really well
    -A woman who is in the early stage of trying to impress you will not risk looking sub-par
    -She will distract you from your workout


    Save the gym for after you two have some real dates. If you see her there, say hi, chat a bit, go workout. Let her watch you, don't get caught watching her. You're there to workout. It should be a hell of a motivator!

    I do go to the gym with girls, sometimes, but they are just friends or women I have been with and moved past the problems listed above.

    Another factor: you will want to be around her when you two go out together. On a well planned date, it is all about you two being engaged in things together. Moving your gym date idea to a later stage in the relationship moves it from the time frame where you need to be toghether to the time frame where you need to show her you are independent of her and don't have to be right next to her the entire time.
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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    No matter how busy a woman is, she will find time to be with you, if she really wants to. It may not be very much time, but she will make some. It's up to the two of you to decide if it's enough.

    Therefore, make the absolute most of any time she can give you two, but stay away from being desperate. Being with you should be a fun, relaxing experience; not a chore to appease you.
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    Default Re: How to date a busy girl/classmate

    Well we were talking about going to a spin class together. Not just going to work out. But good point about the nastiness thing. Ill try to think of something else. If worse comes to worse Ill just wait until Thursday and go to the bars with her.


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