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  1. #1
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    Default Girl sending mixed signals!

    First of all...this site is amazing! Thank you to everyone for all the awesome posts and helpful guides.

    I am, admittedly an AFC right now. I am in the middle of reading The Game and my mind is already going nuts with all the possibilities. I can't wait to try out some routines this weekend. BUT, there remains one girl (I know, I know) who I want more than the others.

    Little over a month ago, I met her at a party through mutual friends and we hit it off. We texted everyday, and the next Friday her and I hung out. We were with other people too, but we flirted all night, did shots together, I had my hand on her ass for a bit. I noticed something weird though; the kid she came with was also over her a litle at the end of the night, but I didn't think anything of it.

    Fast forward to a few weeks later (she went on vaca with family) we all hung out again. This time she was with her best friend, who I now recognize as a HUGE obstacle. My goal was to get her friend to love me, but it didn't work out that way. This other kid has been around for awhile, and her bf loves him and wants them to be together, so she was giving me dirty looks all night, which led to my girl not really feeling me so much, instead she flirted with him.

    I was kind of pissed so I cooled off her for a bit and sure enough she texted me saying she missed me, blah blah blah. All our friends hung out again this past weekend, with her and I flirting all night until the kid came and she was then all over him.

    I know for a fact they havent hooked up yet either, but she clearly seems to be into him more than me.

    Is there any way I can turn the tide in my favor?? I don't know if any approaches from the game work on a girl I already know or not. She def is attracted to me, I don't think I'm in the friend zone yet, but she clearly has the upper hand as she clearly knows I'm into her.

    Am I totally screwed? Thanks!

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    whatever the "kid" is has me confused. Who is it? a kid? A literal kid? or a dude? Is the dude the boyfriend? (aka, is the kid the boyfriend?). Who has a boyfriend? Who are the kids?

    Do you get what I'm getting at? Your story has some bad pronoun->subject references and it's real hard to figure out who has an interest in who and who has a boyfriend and blah blah blah..... and what do you mean was also over her a litle at the end of the night.

    FIX YOUR STORY.

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    Sorry! I typed on my iPhone so I didn't describe as well as I should have.

    The kid I was referring to is another guy. He had a crush on he well before I knew her when she had a bf. Now she has come around and is into him as well. Again, she def is attracted to me but it appears moreso with him.

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    And by over her at the end of the night, he had his arm around her in a real cheesy manner. No kissing or anything but heavy flirting.

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    My gut is telling me just bump the brakes on her and flirt and try to hook up with a couple other girls to get her jealous. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    No, no, no, dude. You will not accomplish anything if you do it like this. Hook up with other chicks because u want to, not to make somebody jealous who is not even yours to begin with. That's just stupid.

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    Haha ok fair enough. So then what do I do to get ahead of this other dude for her affection?

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    AMOG him. Befriend the guy. Works every time.

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    How is befriending him going to make her like me more?

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    Default Re: Girl sending mixed signals!

    And he's not really an alpha male at all. That's why I don't even know why she's into him.


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