First of all...this site is amazing! Thank you to everyone for all the awesome posts and helpful guides.
I am, admittedly an AFC right now. I am in the middle of reading The Game and my mind is already going nuts with all the possibilities. I can't wait to try out some routines this weekend. BUT, there remains one girl (I know, I know) who I want more than the others.
Little over a month ago, I met her at a party through mutual friends and we hit it off. We texted everyday, and the next Friday her and I hung out. We were with other people too, but we flirted all night, did shots together, I had my hand on her ass for a bit. I noticed something weird though; the kid she came with was also over her a litle at the end of the night, but I didn't think anything of it.
Fast forward to a few weeks later (she went on vaca with family) we all hung out again. This time she was with her best friend, who I now recognize as a HUGE obstacle. My goal was to get her friend to love me, but it didn't work out that way. This other kid has been around for awhile, and her bf loves him and wants them to be together, so she was giving me dirty looks all night, which led to my girl not really feeling me so much, instead she flirted with him.
I was kind of pissed so I cooled off her for a bit and sure enough she texted me saying she missed me, blah blah blah. All our friends hung out again this past weekend, with her and I flirting all night until the kid came and she was then all over him.
I know for a fact they havent hooked up yet either, but she clearly seems to be into him more than me.
Is there any way I can turn the tide in my favor?? I don't know if any approaches from the game work on a girl I already know or not. She def is attracted to me, I don't think I'm in the friend zone yet, but she clearly has the upper hand as she clearly knows I'm into her.
Am I totally screwed? Thanks!