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    Default Dating a Convervative girl

    Met a girl during a day game and had an instant date a couple of weeks ago. I am going to list facts as my emotional inputs will probably be bias. At the bottom will be my question.

    Background(What she says during the two dates we've had):
    1. She says she has to know a person for a long time and that she will take time with me.
    2. Says she'd never been hurt and doesn't intent to get hurt
    3. Says she hasn't had many bf's in the past(if any, I didn't ask the specifics)
    4. Says she has to hold back her feelings for me
    5. Says she is very conservative
    6. We don't really talk/Text/Email unless it's for setting up a date
    7. 25 yr old from East Europe

    Positives:
    1. She lives an hour away and went home to get ready and came back to meet me for our instant date
    2. Says she'd never met anyone like me and I am really interesting

    Negatives:
    1. When I hug her she doesn't hug me back, it's like hugging a tree for me.
    2. Only held hand reluctantly
    3. Did not accept my friend request on fb. I am not a big fb user, she asked me to add her so she can see my pictures.

    On our last date we agreed that we'd go bowling together this weekend. I am putting her on my secondary list and no longer want to spend my prime time with her. I still want to keep her around, just not spending my Saturday with her. How should I break the date and still go out with our in the future? Should I not contact her or make up an excuse?
    Last edited by awu25; 03-08-2011 at 03:35 PM.

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    Default Re: Dating a Convervative girl

    From the heard of it, this is a HB8 tops.

    -You haven't built comfort almost at all :
    1. When I hug her she doesn't hug me back, it's like hugging a tree for me.
    2. Only held hand reluctantly
    - Most of those what she said are shit tests, she may very well be conservative ( I'm from Eastern Europe too, so they're plenty, but not too many, haven't met one in ages ) and 25 y/o.
    - "We don't really talk/Text/Email unless it's for setting up a date" : a huge WHY?????? Building attraction and comfort, dude. Texting is like crack for women. Use the time you're away from eachother for texting
    - "Says she'd never been hurt and doesn't intent to get hurt" + "Says she hasn't had many bf's in the past" = I'd really doubt that she had anything serious. Approached, possibly.

    She is scared, you're unique in her eyes and she doesn't know how to manage this whole thing. She wants to do more, but maybe it's her social conditioning that stops her from doing so. Take caution.

    Scratch your last ideas for now. Game her more on texting and comfort. go for the weekend bowling. Go for 1 or 2 dates more. If she still doesn't open up, bump her off the spot.

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    Default Re: Dating a Convervative girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    From the heard of it, this is a HB8 tops.

    -You haven't built comfort almost at all :
    1. When I hug her she doesn't hug me back, it's like hugging a tree for me.
    2. Only held hand reluctantly
    - Most of those what she said are sh1t tests, she may very well be conservative ( I'm from Eastern Europe too, so they're plenty, but not too many, haven't met one in ages ) and 25 y/o.
    - "We don't really talk/Text/Email unless it's for setting up a date" : a huge WHY?????? Building attraction and comfort, dude. Texting is like crack for women. Use the time you're away from eachother for texting
    - "Says she'd never been hurt and doesn't intent to get hurt" + "Says she hasn't had many bf's in the past" = I'd really doubt that she had anything serious. Approached, possibly.

    She is scared, you're unique in her eyes and she doesn't know how to manage this whole thing. She wants to do more, but maybe it's her social conditioning that stops her from doing so. Take caution.

    Scratch your last ideas for now. Game her more on texting and comfort. go for the weekend bowling. Go for 1 or 2 dates more. If she still doesn't open up, bump her off the spot.
    def. this. agree with most of it.

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    Default Re: Dating a Convervative girl

    Hey, maxi, post with what you do not agree with.

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    Default Re: Dating a Convervative girl

    Thanks guys
    Last edited by awu25; 03-08-2011 at 05:26 PM.

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    Default Re: Dating a Convervative girl

    I am a conservative girl I suppose. I don't care of hugging / touchy-feel stuff too early on. I find it's best to wait a few dates before kissing. Not a big texter or facebooker. I do think that it's possible she's just getting to know you and isn't quite comfortable with all these expectations (must hug, hold hands, etc) so soon. Do you even know her? If you see potential, give her time to open up.

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    nice post..........


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