So, I met up with this girl last Thursday from OKC and things went pretty amazingly - probably have never gotten along so well with a girl on the first date. We sat there and talked for a while at a wine bar - then went to another bar and hung out. On the way between the two we kissed, and then after the second I drove her home and we sat in the parking lot like high schoolers and made out and talked for another hour. She wanted to know when I was going to cook for her, when we were going out again and was very clearly into me. I texted her when I got home - which led to some confusion and she ended up calling me and we talked for another 20 minutes. She kept going on about how she never meets interesting people, and I was so interesting and looking forward to hanging out again.
I texted her the next evening asking her how things went at work - she had told me she was a lightweight - no response.
The next morning at 10 a.m. she wrote "I went to bed early last night. I was hungover. Pathetic how I can't hold my liquor."
I let that hang, and texted her on Sunday asking her when she wanted to eat my fantastic salmon (her favorite fish) and said "how about Wed or Thursday?"
I hadn't heard from her until today and you'd have to know who Antoine Dodson is (youtube him if not) to understand. She and I got a big kick out of both thinking he was hilarious and were quoting it. So today I sent this:
"you are so dumb"
That is all. She didn't respond to my invitation for 2 days, but then took 30 minutes to respond to that.
"Ok. Is that because I didn't get back to you right away? Why am I so dumb?"
I waited about three hours, but figured she wasn't getting the reference. (we're both Libras and she really fixated on that about how charming Libras are, which explained my charmingness)
"No, not at all, haha. That was just a joke referncing the antoine dodson video we were laughing about. Remember, I'm charming Libra guy"
That got this as a response.
"Oh, ok. Sorry. Obviously didn't get the reference. I planned on texting you this morning but forgot my phone. Typical. Can't hang on Wednesday because I have class. Thursday meeting my freinds mom whose coming from out of town. Could have hung out tonight...maybe this weekend or next week. I have Spring Break."
Open to suggestions - she could just be putting me off, or not - I'm almost certainly going to say that I'm busy this weekend and try to set something up for next week.