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  1. #1
    alisterio Guest

    Default Awesome first date - trying for a second

    So, I met up with this girl last Thursday from OKC and things went pretty amazingly - probably have never gotten along so well with a girl on the first date. We sat there and talked for a while at a wine bar - then went to another bar and hung out. On the way between the two we kissed, and then after the second I drove her home and we sat in the parking lot like high schoolers and made out and talked for another hour. She wanted to know when I was going to cook for her, when we were going out again and was very clearly into me. I texted her when I got home - which led to some confusion and she ended up calling me and we talked for another 20 minutes. She kept going on about how she never meets interesting people, and I was so interesting and looking forward to hanging out again.

    I texted her the next evening asking her how things went at work - she had told me she was a lightweight - no response.

    The next morning at 10 a.m. she wrote "I went to bed early last night. I was hungover. Pathetic how I can't hold my liquor."

    I let that hang, and texted her on Sunday asking her when she wanted to eat my fantastic salmon (her favorite fish) and said "how about Wed or Thursday?"

    I hadn't heard from her until today and you'd have to know who Antoine Dodson is (youtube him if not) to understand. She and I got a big kick out of both thinking he was hilarious and were quoting it. So today I sent this:

    "you are so dumb"

    That is all. She didn't respond to my invitation for 2 days, but then took 30 minutes to respond to that.

    "Ok. Is that because I didn't get back to you right away? Why am I so dumb?"

    I waited about three hours, but figured she wasn't getting the reference. (we're both Libras and she really fixated on that about how charming Libras are, which explained my charmingness)

    "No, not at all, haha. That was just a joke referncing the antoine dodson video we were laughing about. Remember, I'm charming Libra guy"

    That got this as a response.

    "Oh, ok. Sorry. Obviously didn't get the reference. I planned on texting you this morning but forgot my phone. Typical. Can't hang on Wednesday because I have class. Thursday meeting my freinds mom whose coming from out of town. Could have hung out tonight...maybe this weekend or next week. I have Spring Break."

    Open to suggestions - she could just be putting me off, or not - I'm almost certainly going to say that I'm busy this weekend and try to set something up for next week.

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    Default Re: Awesome first date - trying for a second

    Looks like you are doing good, but try not to get too needy. Make sure you show her you have a life outside of her. Dont always plan your schedule around her or you will get into trouble. Girls like a challenge.

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    Default Re: Awesome first date - trying for a second

    That's the trick - how do I present a challenge and ask her out?

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    Default Re: Awesome first date - trying for a second

    Thats the trick, and I have trouble with this too. Just try to seem busy and that you are not doing her any favors.

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    Default Re: Awesome first date - trying for a second

    Tell her you already had plans this weekend, but that there are some unknowns. and that If you have the opportunity, you'll invite her along or meet up with her for a QUICK hang out. Get her to tell you when She would be willing, and that you'll keep those in mind if they meld up with your schedule.

    Call her "Ditzy Dodson," and try to amp up the fun/excitement/playfulness of your texts with her.

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    johnmike Guest

    Default Re: Awesome first date - trying for a second

    ha ha ha nice story.........


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