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    Question Middle Game

    I have a weird situation. I am awesome at opening and building rapport, proving value and basic attraction at the start of the conversation, and I can usually recognize and pull off a kiss at the right time, but my middle game seems kind of weak.

    Does anyone have any tips for building sexual tension to get from the proving social value stage to the kiss close stage??

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    Check your kino. Attraction is mostly nonverbal so check your body language and increase your kino.

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    I am the exact opposite of you Foxy.. MY middle game is always on point . but for me its the building up attraction part that is so hard for me.. how do you do it? give an example of how and ill give examples of how to work your middle game with some examples of what i did and what you can do to put it on point.

    *~GeO~*

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    @ Foxy : Use assumptive questions and guesses about her. Do cold reads. That will start a conversation that will lead into other conversations. Use disqualifiers. Same reason behind cold reads.

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    I mean im new to this PUA stuff, would oyu be able to give me a brief example of exact words you said and she replied with for one example? like a pick up you did recently doing all those things? if its not to much trouble to as for, Thank you.

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    Here is what I do...critique. I use a mix of different tactics I have learned from a bunch of different PUAs

    1. Artificial time constraint- "Hey I have to get back to my friends but can I get your opinion on something" I try to keep my boding facing away from the set and talk over my shoulder at this point. When you approach always use the 3 second rule, as soon as you see a target open her set.

    2. Opener- "Can I get your opinion on X" I try to come up with my own openers, I am not a fan of using the canned openers you can find online although I do use them occasionally. I experiment with a lot of different openers, you will find that some give better results. lately since Spring break is coming up I have been using Spring break themed openers.

    3. Get accepted by the set- At this point I usually ask how everyone knows each other. If there are any AMOGs in the group I try and befriend them, I will also try to befriend all the obstacles. I ignore and or neg the target at this point.

    4. Prove social value- If the target and another girls say they are best friends I do the Neil Strauss best friend test, or I get them to pick a number 1-10 and I guess, or I do four truths one lie. During stage 3 and 4 I start doing kino.

    5. Isolate the target- At this point I will try to isolate the target to talk one on one. I usually go cocky/funny here and will get the number, but I dont usually kiss close.

    What do yall think of this? What can I do better?

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    Based on your 5 phases, I can see how your middle game is lacking. Steps 1-4 are all about gaining comfort with the group. Little of it is about building rapport and commonalities with your target. tcomea2 is right. There should be a step 4.5 which is conversation with your target, in which you work on hitting attraction switches with kino BEFORE you start trying to isolate.

    Quote Originally Posted by geo557 View Post
    ...MY middle game is always on point . but for me its the building up attraction part that is so hard for me.. how do you do it?
    geo557, I perceive that statement to cancel itself out. Middle game IS building attraction.

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    Default Re: Middle Game

    Hrmm good point Prince.

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    nice discussion


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