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    hi, i have a question that might interest some of you guys it's about foreign girls. I been gaming some of this type of girls but I've noticed something peculiar, maybe it's that I'm not generating enough attraction but after number closing them ( talking,receiving IOI's and vibing) I'm not able to get a date with any of them it seems like they're too busy. so what can i do to improve myself there, and also is there any routine or ideas that can help me to understand better the situation ??

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    get some time.........

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    Foreign girls are quite a fun challenge. There are a few factors you should take into consideration.

    1) Different culture. Obviously, they have a different culture than the girls from your country, hence they have a different social programming and social conditioning, hence you should approach them differently. It isn't hard, but it isn't easy either.

    2) Language Barrier. Yes, language barriers are inhibiting them quite a lot. Chances are you are saying one thing and they will understand a totally different thing or filter it accordingly. This also limits your humor at some point during the conversations, because each culture/nation/whatever has it's own specific humor. Combining the stuff above will result in maybe adopting their humor in the English language and will come off as sounding completely awkward, hence a slight hindering of the ability to connect properly.

    3) Very High Guard Up. If they happen to be tourists, chances are that they will have a very high ASD mechanism "installed". Because most of them will assume that you want them only for sex and nothing more and you come off as a complete and utter sexual threat to them. Keep in mind, half-to-most European and 98% of the Asian chicks are conservative by nature. If they happened to move there, maybe it's because they are trying to adjust to the culture thing and they don't really know how to react to your advances. Maybe it is because your mid-game lacks some elements, but that is the bigger picture. Give them time, don't push for dates that fast, they may need more comfort.

    On the other hand, if they flake it's mostly your fault because of the mid-game sticking point you have. They could also be genuinely busy and/or having a problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    Foreign girls are quite a fun challenge. There are a few factors you should take into consideration.

    1) Different culture. Obviously, they have a different culture than the girls from your country, hence they have a different social programming and social conditioning, hence you should approach them differently. It isn't hard, but it isn't easy either.

    2) Language Barrier. Yes, language barriers are inhibiting them quite a lot. Chances are you are saying one thing and they will understand a totally different thing or filter it accordingly. This also limits your humor at some point during the conversations, because each culture/nation/whatever has it's own specific humor. Combining the stuff above will result in maybe adopting their humor in the English language and will come off as sounding completely awkward, hence a slight hindering of the ability to connect properly.

    3) Very High Guard Up. If they happen to be tourists, chances are that they will have a very high ASD mechanism "installed". Because most of them will assume that you want them only for sex and nothing more and you come off as a complete and utter sexual threat to them. Keep in mind, half-to-most European and 98% of the Asian chicks are conservative by nature. If they happened to move there, maybe it's because they are trying to adjust to the culture thing and they don't really know how to react to your advances. Maybe it is because your mid-game lacks some elements, but that is the bigger picture. Give them time, don't push for dates that fast, they may need more comfort.

    On the other hand, if they flake it's mostly your fault because of the mid-game sticking point you have. They could also be genuinely busy and/or having a problem.
    thanks you helped me a lot i found what my sticking point is but this means that this game it's played on comfort?
    thanks for reading
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    Yeah, it's mostly done in comfort. But let's not forget attraction. You could use text game to create more attraction instead of straightforwardly ask her out.

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    I just got shotdown by one (asian). lol I signed up here then got over confident. It was in the parking lot. I went over to say hi..boom. She was like a deer in the headlights.

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    Was that just a Hi and then...boom?

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    I pretty much asked for it. Library/college game, asian game..lol I got a name. She said were she was from. Then she said she's feeling awkward,the I-don't-know-you bit. So I said that's how we get to know each other..Then I ended it so she could go. lol There's another one around now.

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    I agree with what's being said about asian girls. During my exchange program in Germany, we had 5 asian girls total (3 from Taiwan and 2 from Thailand). They were the most reserved group out of all of us. The blow out shouldn't really be taken personally as they can be very reserved at times.
    Now I'm not saying this works for everyone, but what worked for me was just to keep my approach straight. If they seem like they are trying to dodge you, move on; there's plenty more where they came from. And if they really do wanna talk, they will come back.
    About the foreign girls though, do you know where these other girls were from? Just curious, because I know different areas of Europe have different mentalities when it comes to this.

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    I got two to talk later on that night. I sat down next to them. I teased about holding my computer, asked them what they do. They chatted back. See what happened in the direct approach thread since the ending relates there.


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