Hello guys this is my first post I have a question I believe I'm reading this correctly but just want to get some second opinions; OK so i go to a gym and a cute girl works the front desk, didn't talk much for the first 6 months i went to the gym but then recently we started BSing whenever I come in which lately is basically everyday. SO I want to move this out of the gym an my plan is just a simple lets grab coffee sometime and see what happens. Don't want to see a shootdown everytime I go to the gym.. But ok here's my specific question, on Monday I was in the gym and my buddy and I were leaving, so I stop by the deak to confirm my appointment with my trainer the next day and it turns out it was early in the morning when I had thought it was late so my buddy who was with me was like "he's def not gonna make it, we're going out tonight" . The girl then goes into this whole "lecture" on how she doesn't drink cause its unhealthy and describes in great detail how calories from alcohol are like 90% fat etc etc anyway it turned into this whole discussion with two more staff and manager and blah blah we eventually left after like 10 min of talking about the effects of alcohol. I didn't end up going out that night and the next day I went to my early appt which is at a time when she doesn't work and then later that evening my buddy wanted to go to the gym so we went to an abs class which is during when she works. OK so do the class and I'm kinda walking around thinking what I want to work on and she leaves the front desk comes over and asks
Her "so how was it?"
me "it was good, my second workout for the day, wore me out"
her "oh no i meant last night"
me "ohh yeah no I didn't end up going"
her "really? why not"
me "well some people bailed and we were just gonna go to such an such so it wasn't a big deal, what about you what did you do last night?"
her "just worked out and went home, I don't drink cause I go to school full time and work alot, pretty much all I do is go to school, go to work and workout and go home."
me "yeah I know what thats like, when I'm working it seems all I do is work and then workout here and sleep, how many units are you taking?" ( I work overnights 8 days on 6 days off, we have talked about this before so she nows my work schedule)
her "12 an then I work m-thurs"
me "thats not bad my last quarter i took 24 units, whats your major?"
her "I'm undecided so i'm just taking generals so far, no sense taking something until I decide"
me "yeah thats probably for the best"
OK so her whole "all i do is school and work" what do you guys think of that? one thing you should probably know is that I believe although i have not heard it from her is that she isn't 21 where as I am 24 so she could be making excuses why she doesn't drink/party since she knows i'm 24. or maybe I'm over analyzing this entire thing but either way I'd like some opinions on what that was because I'm pretty sure she's into me cause almost without fail whenever i come in she makes it a point to come to the front and say hi even though its not necessary, an if she doesn't I'll just buy a powerbar or something so she does have to an i can chat her up a bit haha.