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    dixiewhiskey Guest

    Default Recovering social proof

    So I live in a college town. It is by no means a small town, a student pop. of 25,000.

    I've been here for 5 years now, I'm finally about to graduate in the coming fall.

    I've been with 19 girls, 17 of them from this town. Basically I go for the "scene girls", but I will take any girl that is naturally hot.

    Long story short, I'm slept with a lot of the girls in the whole "house show" crowd and they all know me now.

    Of coarse I didn't want to go into a relationship with any of these chicks, so it's safe to say I'm not exactly their favorite person now. My question is this: In a relatively small pool like this where lots of girls know you and that you're all about sex how do you strike a new lay?

    This has been a big obstacle for me for a couple of years now. I'm not some new freshman that no one knows now. Even the newer freshman girls eventually end up talking to girls I've slept with ( I see it at parties ). So I usually can't walk up to them when they are talking to someone from my past.

    I think it's all in my head sometimes, but it would be ignorant to pretend talk doesn't happen.

    Should I move on and go for girls out in the city? I don't like this because the drive is an hour round trip, lots of gas, and usually the girls all live outside the city in the opposite direction, so there's no real getting laid when you go downtown.

    Should I go for different girls in a different scene in my town? I don't exactly fit in at frat parties or the like. I don't have piercings or tats, so it's not a matter of that.

    I just don't know what to do to salvage what's left of my last year here. Any advice is appreciated!

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    Default Re: Recovering social proof

    Quote Originally Posted by dixiewhiskey View Post

    This has been a big obstacle for me for a couple of years now. I'm not some new freshman that no one knows now. Even the newer freshman girls eventually end up talking to girls I've slept with ( I see it at parties ). So I usually can't walk up to them when they are talking to someone from my past.

    I think it's all in my head sometimes, but it would be ignorant to pretend talk doesn't happen.
    As you said, it can be in your head (atleast sometimes) an excuse to not approach perhaps? But ofcourse some girls will her about you, but don't make such a big thing out of it.

    Say that a girl you approach says something like "I have heard that you are a player." Either you can give up or just go on.
    Kinda like
    Thats cute, have you ever..blablabla

    But its not only outer game. If the idea of the girls seeing you as a player affects your inner game then you are going in to the set thinking " I wont get anywhere with this girl". And probably fuck it up.

    I have a player rep in one of my social cirkels.
    One girl asked me "You are a player, aren't you?" She knew that I have had sex with her best friend a few months ago. But still she slept with me later the first night i met her.


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