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  1. #1
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    Default Start up steps for a beginner

    Hey, im in college and ive got a ton of parties lined u for the next few weeks.

    Can someone lay out my steps to take such as openers routines looking for IOIs. I am somewhat familiar but I need to know what order to put it in and any suggested specific moves. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    Try to avoid as much as possible things like 'what classes do you take, etc'
    IOIs- she touches her hair or anything of value (jewerly, clothing, you)
    Just have fun, review your nights, don't drink to much, and try things you might think won't work.

    College is so easy especially if at your house. All you have to do is say to college girls, 'hey wanna come up to my room for some shots'

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    Hey, welcome to the forum.

    Here's something to get you started good.This was posted here somewhere, I don't know where exactly, but I have it saved in my computer, so I'll copy and paste it.

    M3 Model
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    The M3 Model is the breakdown and analysis of the COURTSHIP phase of any male-female interaction: meaning, the period of time leading into any full-fledged sexual relationship (be it a friends with benefits [fwb] situation or a girlfriend/boyfriend [gf/bf] thing).

    The general consensus is that from the time of meeting a girl to the time of closing a girl (depending on your definition--for adults it's typically sex, while for younger teens it's generally just making out/kissing. For older teens it's generally somewhere in between depending on age & experience), to do all 9 steps it should take anywhere from 7-11 hours of total face-time with the girl if you are running everything correctly. This does NOT have to occur all at once. It can be a few minutes here, a few hours there, etc.

    But the point is this: it should not take months & months of build-up. Rather, if it's going to happen at all, typically it will happen within the first few handful of dates. More specific time breakdowns will be added later for each phase.

    { ATTRACT -> COMFORT -> SEDUCTION } ---> Relationship

    The attraction phase is divided into :

    A1 - Approach

    - Say your false time constraint to put the target at ease.
    - Say Your Opener
    - Roll-off
    - Lock-in
    - Gauge Target Availability. You need to get to know the nature of the target's existing relationships and her relation to the people she's out with. She might be single, or married. She might be out with her boyfriend or her brother.
    A2 - Attracting the HB or Female-to-male Interest
    - demonstrate higher value, while simultaneously showing lack of interest in the target. She responds with Indicators of Interest.
    A3 - Male-to-Female Interest
    - Bait the woman to become more invested in the interaction, and then he rewards her efforts with Indicators of Interest.

    The comfort phase is divided into :

    C1 - Building rapport
    - The couple shares in friendly dialogue. A sense of comfort and rapport develops.
    C2 - Building emotional connection and physical connection
    - Both parties feel a vibe that "It is on." Kissing occurs. This phase may last over the course of several dates.
    C3 - Intimacy
    - Now at a seduction location, heavy making out ensues and the couple moves into the bedroom.

    The seduction phase is divided into :

    S1 - Foreplay
    - Begin the physical escalation toward sex. If this happens too soon, it can cause buyer's remorse.
    S2 - LMR
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    Last-minute resistance is point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman.
    S3 - Sex

    - It is necessary to have sex as soon as possible to level the playing field.

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    Good 1page sum up of the Mystery Method. Remember though If you're the life of the party, you'll Demonstrate enough Higher Value that you can skip a few steps.

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    Correct. And if done right, could work for you as social proof

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    That is some really solid stuff from MM, but you know he has some new stuff that throws out and simplifies this process. i forget the particualrs, but i'll look for it on my hard drive and see if i can post it here for you.

    i read it ages ago and remember thinking it was a lot simpler than all that A1, A2 stuff. Basically it's 5 steps now as i remember.
    approach, meet, gain attraction, connect/build rapport and seduce. i'll look for it if there's interest here.

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    Default Re: Start up steps for a beginner

    Dude watch The Vibe. It's all you need.


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