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    Default First date need help

    Ok so I met this chick online, got her facebook then phone number, she's been txting me every day for the last week, I've tried to get a date with her twice, but she says things like "I'll try to make it" so I thought she was putting me down, but the next day she would txt me without fail (maybe she enjoys my txt games, I don't know) So today I told her that this was "her last chance or else I'll start cheating on her" and I got a date with her tomarrow. My ? is how should I act when I first see her, because we haven't talked on the phone, much less seen each other in person, so its going to be awkward a bit, like meeting a total stranger for a date, so any advice u guys can give me will be awesome. I'm good at dates, i just need to know what to do/say for the first 3minutes of seeing her for the first time in person.

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    Default Re: First date need help

    Call her an hour before the date for confirmation but tell her you wanted to call her to hear her voice. Speak some and it'll be less awkward already. Tell her to call you back when she arrives to the meeting place, like that you can see each other from a distance walking toward each other with your phones in hand.
    Smile and make fun of the fact you know how awkward it may feel, even for you.
    When you see her say something like: "you look good (try to find something you like in particular about her clothes, accesories... and tell her you like it), what do you think about me?" Smile.

    That's the kind of ice-breaker(s) you can use...

    Also, if you spoke about one or 2 interesting things while texting, tell her that you're not complete strangers because you 'spoke' about topics most people won't talk about before the 3rd date, if they ever... What you have in common...
    And stuff like that to show connection, that you are already linked in some ways.

    Smile, be fun...But, don't forget, as soon as you feel comfort, start the attraction phase.

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    Default Re: First date need help

    Thanks dude, you're a genius. I like the part where you have the girl call you when she arrives, so that both of you will be obviously talking to each other as you’re walking toward one another, its playful and puts the girl at ease.

    What I usually do is, when a girl and I are approaching each other, at the start of a date I usually say " I see you have dressed for the occasion," (most of the first dates, i take the girl out Latin dancing, so i tell her to look nice be4 hand) "10 buck says that if you do a complete turn in that dress I won't say wow." *she does a turn* I say "wow" of course i don't give her the money.


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    Default Re: First date need help

    Latin dancing is a good first date, really.
    The dress/outfit, the dhv, you have a good reason to see each other (avoid her flaking)... And kino right away... Very good indeed.

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    Post date report: So mistakes? She was 5 minutes late, so I left and then she called me saying she was there lol talk about a setback. I joked on the phone " I waited forever for you to show up! 5 minutes is a long time to keep a cute charming guy waiting! I’m turning around now and will be there in 4minutes. Dame you, I was trying to run away and you caught me!" anyway when I got there I was able to smooth out the awkwardness a little with what you said about approaching each other while on the cell and mentioning how awkward the situation was. For some reason I was nervous (this was my first date with a girl I met online) and drank beer during a meal to calm my nerves. I was playful and teased her constantly in a flirtation way, but I couldn't kiss close. It was raining outside/cold (we're on the back to her car from the restaurant) and I couldn't picture me kissing her in that environment, maybe I'm just making excuses. So I told her "I would give you a hug, but I can't have you groping me...so let’s do an imaginary hug" we both closed our eyes, we both peaked than I said "stop! You’re choking me" told I had fun, said goodbye and left. P.S. we schedule another date on this coming Tuesday during the end of the meal. I now know why I hate taking girls to dinner for a first date. You can’t kino very well with her sitting across the table and you have to do 90% of the talking or else ur’ll just be sitting there.


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