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    Default Cock Blocking Help

    I'm not a PUA or really studied any PUA skills. I've come here because I'm stuck. Every time I go out, it seems, this crap happens and I don't know how to avoid and/or respond to it. Could someone offer some suggestions?

    Here's the setup:


    Step 1: Me and and a guy (or sometimes just me) are talking to a girl (HB)
    Step 2: Guy, either invited or not, comes up and steps BETWEEN me and HB. Girl engages with guy and guy physically pushes me out of the conversation.

    This is driving me nuts. I have no clue how to a) protect against this and b) react when it happens.

    I'm not a tall guy (I'm 5' 7") or a large guy (140 lbs) and frequently the cock blocker is a much taller guy. Last night, the guy was probably 5' 11" or so and bigger. He literally moved between me and HB so instead of looking at her, I was looking at this jackass's shoulder blades.

    After the jackass was standing basically between me and the HB, I moved behind the jackass and over to the HB's right to rejoin the conversation. It was just awkward. So I chumped and just left.

    Please, any suggestions would really be helpful here. I'm totally stuck and this happens frequently.

    Thanks a ton.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Run some AMOG tactics on him. Like so :

    AMOG : Hey, this is a nice girl.

    PUA : Her....she's pure evil! (give a knowing look)
    PUA : Her...of course, she's my sister!
    PUA : Her....she cost me 10 bucks plus delivery
    PUA : Her....she's got 11 toes you know!
    PUA : Her....she tried to bite my left nipple off the other day!

    ( a classic one )
    AMOG: Hey girls whats up (or whatever)
    PUA: Hey, dude, dude (putting hands up like you give up)... I will pay you a HUNDRED dollars right now to take these girls away from me.
    (Girls will go "no no no... we love you PUA.. noooooo" and giggle and crawl on you.. Again, immediately deflating to the guy)

    AMOG: (showing signs that he wants to fight)
    PUA: hahah, dude, are you like trying to pick a fight with me? hahahha.. ok ok hold up hold up.. wait a sec, we'll do even better.. first... we'll have an armwrestling competition.. then second.. we'll do one armed pushups.. and last..... POSE-DOWN!!

    (then you start flexing and go "ladies?", and they start saying how you're so strong, and the AMOG looks like a tool.. you're tooling him, by making him seem like he's trying too hard to impress the girls by showing them superiority).

    AMOG: Hey man.. keep talking.. no no, let's hear your pitch man.. pick these girls up man, you're doing awesome.
    PUA: Hey, you know I've gotta try to impress you COOL ( x-city, x-dressed, x-whatever quality ) guys.. You guys fucking ROCK.
    ( cut him down on whatever limited amount of knowledge you have of him, even if its not relevant whatsoever, he'll feel uncomfortable and his body language will show it )

    AMOG: (starts touching you to show dominance)

    PUA: hahhaha, DUUUUDE, I'm not into guys man... dude, there's club-gay-whatever over there man.. hands off the merchandise buddy
    (girls laugh at him, then he starts qualifying himself to you that he's not gay)

    AMOG: (gets in your face)
    PUA: (don't answer.. just SIT there quiet.. the more he says stuff to you, the more he's TRYING.. talking too long without an answer is QUALIFYING yourself.. so if he keeps trying to out-alpha you, and you don't answer, eventually he looks beta because he tried too hard to get your attention.. another trick is to make "let's get out of here" girlcode with your eyes to the girls (mimic what they do to eachother when you do a bad set), and they'll leave with you) ( My personal favorite )

    Most of the time, the AMOG feels immediately beta after such a line!

    Hey AMOG, what's up? Are u ill today? You look sick!
    Hey AMOG, you look/talk/act strange, do you take drugs?
    Hey AMOG, your clothes are really strange!
    Hey AMOG, i talked to some people here...They don't like you, because you seem strange!
    Hey you seem tired!

    One of the really important aspects of this stuff is being less into the AMOG battle than the AMOG is.

    The easy way to handle any Alpha is to be polite to him, but act disinterested by his "accomplishments " using tonality and body language (without coming off as patronizing and/or sarcastic) while simultaneously being charming to others around you. This will drop his perceived value and cause him to qualify himself to try and raise it back up. He can't fight you or do shit like that, and he can't move to insults, because you've been polite and in doing so he would be making himself look VERY BAD. The only tactic vs this is to walk away. If you reward him just enough to encourage further qualifying but not enough to make him feel validated again he will fall into line as beta in relation to you.

    I've seen ( but mostly heard of ) PUA's practicing AMOG tactics with friends and/or wingmen. Personally, I don't really think it's going to cut it, because you get into the battle and try to come up with more witty lines, etc. You won't win real AMOG battles unless you are able to hold your frame under immense social pressure - this aspect is missing when you are just sitting around shittalking with your friends.

    Don't get to caught up in this AMOG stuff. Deal and immeadiatly smile and move on, you've got girls to meet.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Thanks for the fun verbal stuff.

    But, unfortunately, it's not quite that simple. It's not verbal, it's physical.

    The guy literally has his shoulder blades in my face and is standing in between me and the girl. I can't see his face or the girl's anymore. It's not like he just walked up. He walked up and stood BETWEEN me and the girl. (Check out the simple drawing I posted.)

    Do I grab him and say "Hey, dude! Move over!"? Or do I try to squeeze back into the little circle (that now I'm an out side of)? Do I move around the outside of the little circle and try to find a place to squeeze in? It sounds comical but it's driving me nuts.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    It really doesn't matter if it's physical more than verbal, it's how you use those tactics to make you look good and adjust to the situation.

    I was in a similar situation once and I admit that I got lucky. The guy just swooped in from the left and start gaming the HB's I was gaming them. He wearing a weird cologne and a lot of it. And the smell reminded me of a time when a friend came over and was sweaty and smelling like shit and sprayed over his sweat smell.

    And that made me asked the AMOG : "Dude, that's a weird smelling cologne, are you wearing it over your sweat smell?" And he just looked at me dumbfounded without saying a word. And then I went gaming the HB's like nothing happened. The guy backed off, needless to say.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Again, thanks. I'll have to really ponder this one because I don't see how what you are saying applies here. If I were to respond verbally, I'd be literally talking to the guy's shoulder blades. He was facing the girl, standing in between us, completely blocking me.

    I wish this was a one-time thing. That's why I'm so frustrated. And when it happens, I just don't have any recovery that doesn't have me looking silly.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Try this one next time you find you staring at his shoulder blade...

    You: Whoa whoa whoa (<---make sure this is loud)..Dude, easy... (Say this portion very tenderly like a kindergarten teacher to a student) I know youre a little nervous and it may be your first time trying to pick up a girl, but you cant jump on top of them like that. They are like deer and will run if you try to ride them when you first meet them.

    AMOG: response (probably trying to qualify himself to you or if hes a typical idiotic alpha he'll take a very defensive position)

    You: Dude, its okay, I totally understand, shes a cute girl (motion towards her) and you're a little tense. Just calm down and let's all have a talk together, and then you can try again after you have relaxed a little. (Smirk right here)

    More than likely he will walk away with his tail between his legs if not well you've pretty much just ruined any chances he has. Gdluck

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Quote Originally Posted by thumperj View Post
    Again, thanks. I'll have to really ponder this one because I don't see how what you are saying applies here. If I were to respond verbally, I'd be literally talking to the guy's shoulder blades. He was facing the girl, standing in between us, completely blocking me.

    I wish this was a one-time thing. That's why I'm so frustrated. And when it happens, I just don't have any recovery that doesn't have me looking silly.
    Pinch his ass. Then act like a gay guy wanting to hit on him. You'll freak him out and make him leave.

    ( On a side note, I could totally see myself doing this )

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    I understand where you’re coming from dude. You have to be careful when dealing with Amogs, because even if you amog him in a none offensive manner, theres always the chance he will throw a punch. I've been into a couple of fights just because the dude is drunk and just making him look lesser of a men compared to you can set him off.

    The taller guy getting between you and the girl is a bad scenario. You should combine setfebs' amog tactics, like: I would have grabbed gently on the amogs deltoid/shoulder turning him around then tell him I was having a conversation with my sister. Once he took a step back I grab around the girls' back placing my hand on her shoulder positioning her in slightly in front of me, separating the amog and me, while simultaneously saying to her "I think this (give the dude a nickname here to dlv him) is trying to pick you up! lets here his pitch!" Whats at work here is the placement of all three of us. He was in hes comfort zone, while standing in between me and the girl with his back toward me. Now his sales pitch is interrupted, with me behind the girl waiting for his next move. He'll feel like a comedian on stage choking, and the best part is he can't get mad at me, because she’s in between us waiting for him to continue his pickup, which I called him out on. It’s all about throwing him off and then putting him in a situation where he can’t recover or get mad at you.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    Thanks for all the replies. Some, like especially from LiOnHeArT, made me LOL.

    I appreciate all the help. Maybe I should take more time and learn some of the things ya'll teach. Going out has become a complete drag - not fun and a whole lot of ego-busting work. And all for zilch.

    When I go out, I'm with some pretty strong alpha males - all super nice guys but they are lady magnets. It's tough waters to navigate NOT being one of those guys. There are always plenty of very attractive girls around but I'm not why they are circling, ya know what I mean.

    Thanks again for all the suggestions.

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    Default Re: Cock Blocking Help

    I was talking to this girl a second ago. Either the guy was her friend or bf. He gave me a look. I was tempted to test him. There was no physical intimidation. lol Instead, I just said hi as he escorted her away and shrugged it off.


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