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    Lovesting is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Help Please - she is too abrupt

    Hi Guys,

    I really need some help.

    This girl, I have been working for the last three weeks is kind of too anxious, I guess.

    Whenever I make a move for a cheek kiss, or anything of the sort, she makes very abrupt and jerky movements of the head. She almost crashes her side-cheek on my mouth.

    When she hugs me, she does it in a very nice, but also very fast and sudden manner.

    It is hard for me to go for a KC, since she quickly shows me her cheek, she makes hasty movements of the head, arms, etc.

    She is apparently not comfortable, and, so far, I have not been having success in trying to make her more tranquil, and start to enjoy sensuality at a normal to slow pace.

    She seems to be into me, but does not allow things to proceed in a quiet and nice pace, as I am used to.

    I went for the kiss close, she faced me for two seconds, with her mouth closed, then, quickly turned the head and smashed her cheek on my lips. Which I kissed, and then she recomposed herself as if nothing had happened. And kept talking...

    I don't have techniques to escalate kino if she keeps behaving like that.

    My questions are:
    - Why does she behave like that?
    - What do you recommend me to do?

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    Morrisb is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Help Please - she is too abrupt

    She doesn't seem like she's into you despite you saying it. Her actions speak louder. You might have to move on.

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    Default Re: Help Please - she is too abrupt

    Morrisb is right, i would just move on. If by kino escalating you are making her uncomfortable i would step a couple of steps back, and see how that goes. but I would not waste my time. If there was something there, it might not be there any longer. Just rethink your steps. See where you failed and work on it.

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    Lovesting is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Re: Help Please - she is too abrupt

    Thank you guys,
    You are probably right.

    However, I forgot to tell you that she keeps sending me all sorts of positive signs as well.

    Example:
    She looks for me frequently. Yesterday, she came to the point of looking inside the open door of the gentleman's room to look for me - I was inside - she quickly moved out of my sight, visibly embarassed.
    She winks at me whenever we say goodbye. She blushes when talking to me. She engages in sex talk without problems, and even give hints of sex, etc. When we go out she is very attentive. She frequently helps me out with almost anything. And when she finds me talking to other girls, her face clearly shows jealousy.

    And, finally, yes, she has a boyfriend, whom she frequently bashes in our talks.

    There is only this problem with kino.

    I would appreciate if you could please elaborate on your earlier opinions in light of these facts.

    Thanx in advance.


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