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    Jakehimself is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did I blow it with this girl I like?

    Hey guys new to the community here. Happy to find such a sick pua forum. I need some advice. The first three days I knew this gal went awesomely. Grinded at the club demonstrated dhv's and kiss closed on the second night. Had her dry humpin. So basically I did a lot of this right the first few days, but after we hooked up I couldn't be myself anymore and after a couple nights of poor interaction I think she lost interest. Can I salvage this?

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    Whatup is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Did I blow it?

    i will answer your question after i get to the root of the problem first. but ill answer it mid question to ensure that u read what i have to say which is much more important.

    after you hooked up you couldnt be yourself? are u sure ur not confusing who u are?......what u just said was very interesting. and inspires me to think....lets think about it.....

    you think you were being yourself. when u hooked up with her. but then after u hooked up. u couldnt be yourself anymore....
    lets look at the inner game options in no order of likelihood.

    1) your confusing your true self for your fake self which u used to get with her. subconsiously once you hooked up with her, u got tired of being "yourself"-fake self- so u started to act like ur real self and ur real self is either a) doesnt naturally get along with that girl or b) doesnt find the girl interesting. so your distate for her seeps through unconcsioucly she senses it and it ruins interaction . ----but because consciously u think of ur fake self as ur real self u think you think u stopped being yourself after u hooked up with her. and thus ur odd theory---

    2) it just didnt work out and now your making excuses and blaming yourself, because you believe every guy can get with every girl if they know what to do.sorry girls arent computers. you cant program them. . not everyone is meant to get along. and not even the best Alpha can get with every single girl. not even Bradd Pitt can get with EVERY girl in the world.

    3) your gay. and you refuse to admit it because of society. society is also the reason you attempt to get with girls. you think you need to "get" with them to feel better about it. but once u do. your subconsious disinterest in vagina seeps through. making ur goal self defeating.unlikely. because if u were u would probably be posting on a forum about how to figure out if ur gay. but hey had to bring it out there.

    4) BET YOU DIDNT KNOW THIS EXISTED- studies show that there are chemicals that attract women and men naturally that only are subconscious knows about. you know what the problem is? taking the pill can change a woman's chemical attractive haywiring. what does that mean for you? its possible that since u dry humped that night, she started taking the pill in anticipation of sex. then bam. even tho u kept doing everything right.

    Now to answer your question. YES YOU CAN SALVAGE THIS!!!!!!!. anything is possible. literally everything. ill give u two personal examples. used to go out with this girl. but once i met her family and friends i lowkey regretted it because her sister and some of her friends were hotter. i cheated.after we broke up. she hated me and her friends and sister acted like they did too. 6 months later, at a party her sister and one of her hot friends approached me at a party my ex was at....to have a three some. ya it happened dude. what did i say anythings possible. You wanna hear about me getting at a girl who showed some disinterest? too many stories yo....but to sum it up usually what happens is i go with the flow. if i think theres a reason i address it. if shes showing general disinterest i back off. who wants a girl that doesnt appreciate them? someone who doesnt care about themselves or have a winning attitude. sometimes they come back. other times they dont. ive chased after em...usually doesnt work. but it sometimes does.... point is YOU CAN SALVAGE IT. but why call it salvaging? if u think of it as reconnecting. getting back the spark. enjoying your interaction with her. your much more likely to have it happen. Salvage makes it sound like shes not human. and no one likes being treated like an object.

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