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  1. #1
    Moxcipify is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default This situation is getting tiring

    First of all, I will admit I've never had a girlfriend, nor a date and I'm 19 years old, and I think it makes me kind of nervous around girls I'm interested in (no problem if it's just to mess around though.)

    So there is this girl I've been talking to on and off (but mainly texting). I invited her some months ago (before Christmas) to take a walk somewhere really nice and she accepted, however we had a lot of exams and I told her to tell me when she wanted to do it (this is my first real mistake I think). Haven't heard from her about this during Christmas time and she went on a trip after that, so she was unreachable for some time.

    When she came back, asked her how it was, etc and one night asked her if she was going to that special event in a club and she answered: "Yea I do! Text me if you go too!"

    That made me feel great because I knew she at least wanted to see me, but when I texted her after that, no answer...

    Sometimes she answers real fast and positively and sometimes she just ignores my messages (when I see her, she's either smiling a lot or kind of shy..). Earlier I asked her again to go walk at the location I talked about (remember she accepted last time but we never got to go) but she answered: "Hmm, not really, I've got something a little better to do haha"

    I answered "Well, that's too bad."

    I really don't know what to do anymore, I really like her and would love to know her more, but I just don't know if it is possible anymore...feels like I screwed up big time.

    Have you guys got any advice on what I should try? If it works, that's good, if not, well, any suggestion is a good way to learn for the next time.

    Thanks a lot!

    P.S.: She's never had a boyfriend either, don't know if that changes anything...
    Last edited by Moxcipify; 04-07-2011 at 03:40 AM.

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    Morrisb is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: This situation is getting tiring

    She seems flaky. She probably doesn't have boyfriends because no other guy will put up with that.

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    Moxcipify is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: This situation is getting tiring

    I've actually been told she just doesn't want one, but how can she be so willing at first then completely the opposite? She is a nice girl, but if she thinks I'm doing this to be her boyfriend, she's seeing a bit too far. I'm doing all of this because I'm interested and want to know her more.

    I think I really lost value. How should I deal with this? (Or simply stay away, even if it could've been a way to learn more?)

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    Morrisb is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: This situation is getting tiring

    What women say and how they act don't always match. lol Start stepping back. Save face and if it's meant to be she'll make the move.


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